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Submitted by momatwittsend on Wed, 04/10/2013 - 5:26pm

Sometimes I seriously wonder about DH. I get so fucking annoyed I could spit nails.
He just texted me and asked if I could bring him a slushy. I said no, I have to run home after work make supper for the kids and go to my appointment at 6:30. His solution? Leave work early and bring me one. :jawdrop: Really, I can just imagine going to my boss stating "I have to leave work early to go take my husband a slushy"
I think I just figured out why men don't give birth, the child would starve to death, as most DH can only think of themselves.

Need Help giving up control

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Submitted by momatwittsend on Tue, 03/19/2013 - 4:24pm

I'm not exactly new here, but I haven't been on for a while. My story is the same as everyone's, Marriage would be fantastic, but the Skids and DH's stupidity screw it up.

I have disengaged quite well from my SD, and SS (both have moved back with us), if they don't do there homework, shower, brush teeth, have clean clothes I really don't care. My BS is doing just fine, and I make sure the above is always done for him.

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Submitted by momatwittsend on Fri, 08/06/2010 - 2:07pm

I have not been posting for a bit, things have been going fairly smoothly, but how I’m to get through the next year, I’m really not sure.

SS13 has decided to move back in with us. Am I happy? No, but whatever I’m an adult I can deal with it.

Very upset with DH

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Submitted by momatwittsend on Mon, 02/08/2010 - 11:17am

I think I have mentioned here before that my BS18, is a drug addict. He was clean for about 6 months, and this weekend we had to kick him out of the house for drug use.

It was very hard for me to do. He is my first born, and it has always just been him and I for the longest time.

He is not a bad kid, just really really got off track. It was my decision to kick him out of the house, as I had set my bottom line as no drug's, drug use, drug stuff in the house. Well did a room search and found tons of crap.

What is this year of the utterly stupid husband?

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Submitted by momatwittsend on Thu, 01/14/2010 - 6:25pm

I should check the chineese calendar, as I'm pretty sure that is what this year is.
DH tells me on Monday, Tuesday and this morning, that he will not be able to come home this weekend. He is suppose to have his children this weekend, and his mom's 60th b'day party is on Saturday, and my mom's 61 party is on Sunday. I tell him fine, work, not much you can do about it. I tell him I will get his kids on Saturday, take them to his mom's party and then take them home. I thought I was being nice.

It's friday SS is at my house now, can anyone send me a drink?

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Submitted by momatwittsend on Fri, 11/06/2009 - 12:43pm

Just the thought of going home after work, knowing that SS is their, is making me soooooo not want to go home.

SD isn't coming this weekend, instead she decided to go visit her boyfriend in a different city. She is only 14, can't believe BM said ok, and that DH didn't so boo to it. Oh well, at least I have taught her about birthcontrol, and have provided her with condoms.

SS amazes me yet again, and not in a good way

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Submitted by momatwittsend on Tue, 10/13/2009 - 2:33pm

My brother-in-laws grandpa passed away this Saturday. Now his grandpa, raised him, he was more like a father figure than a grandpa.

My kids and I are going to the funeral as my two boys new this man very very well, spent plenty of time on the farm with him, learned about cows, and crops from him. They are very sad at his passing.

My SS has just had a complete breake down because it is not fair that BS10 gets to miss a day of school and he doesn't.

Please tell me that I am not being extra bitchy just because he is my SS.

ARGGG, I’m mad at my husband at the moment.

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Submitted by momatwittsend on Fri, 08/28/2009 - 12:11pm

ARGGG, I’m mad at my husband at the moment.

He hasn’t seen SD since July, he has seen SS once in August (his course wouldn’t allow it, he was way too busy I get that part).

So he has to work awayall weekend. Great not a big deal, I have tons of shit to do. So his brilliant plan? Have me drive the kids to where he is working for the weekend, so we can sit in his apartment while he works…..

so over and done with being a step parent long sorry

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Submitted by momatwittsend on Fri, 08/21/2009 - 1:28pm

This is my first blog, I have lurked here for a few months, and just have to get everything off of my chest.

My dh and I were highschool friends, who went there seperate ways after highschool and then hooked up later in life. DH's ex, told him when the split up "if I can have the leather couch you can have the kids" kids at the time were 7 and 5. He has had full custedy of them since then. Recently BM had a baby (a year ago) and has decided she is mom of the year. her other kids need to be with her, blah blah blah blah. So dh lets the kids go live with her.