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Instant mom of 4... HOW'D I GET MYSELF INTO THIS??

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Submitted by Miss_Understood on Fri, 10/15/2010 - 12:19pm

It's so terrible to wait and wait to see what's going to happen next with the BM. I feel like I'm sick of this roller coster ride. Why is it this lady has so much control just because she had his kids. I'm having his kid and I feel thrown to the side. I feel like we work around her and their kids and our whole life is on hold until their weekend or phone call. It's going to be like this forever and to tell the truth if I was smart and knew better I would have ran the other way! I don't know that it's worth it. Maybe I could've found a man that's just as perfect minus the DRAMA.

Instant mom of 4... HOW'D I GET MYSELF INTO THIS??

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Submitted by Miss_Understood on Fri, 10/15/2010 - 12:18pm

It's so terrible to wait and wait to see what's going to happen next with the BM. I feel like I'm sick of this roller coster ride. Why is it this lady has so much control just because she had his kids. I'm having his kid and I feel thrown to the side. I feel like we work around her and their kids and our whole life is on hold until their weekend or phone call. It's going to be like this forever and to tell the truth if I was smart and knew better I would have ran the other way! I don't know that it's worth it. Maybe I could've found a man that's just as perfect minus the DRAMA.

Not even his BD

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Submitted by Miss_Understood on Thu, 10/14/2010 - 3:25am

My SO has a SD10 (sort of) of his own. She is not my SO's biological child but he has raised her since she was a toddler. SO has always introduced and completely considers her as his own. Things between SD10 and myself were difficult to say the least. She ease dropped, spied, lied and caused as much trouble as possible, conspiring with or manipulated by BM the entire time.

Could I be the evil stepmother?

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Submitted by Miss_Understood on Tue, 10/12/2010 - 10:41am

So our current problem came to my attention this weekend when he brought up that I treat my Skids different. He says I am mean to my SD4. Although I didn't realize he felt that way but I quickly came to my own defense when I told him his little angle is naughty. 4 year old usually are, but she is also very spoiled when it come to her BM. I have no problem with that but when any of the kids are bad they get into trouble and she just happens to be in more trouble then the others.

Who's kids come 1st?

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Submitted by Miss_Understood on Fri, 10/08/2010 - 5:57pm

Sometimes I feel like he thinks it's okay to put me and my daughter last. He has said out right "His kids come first". We are having a child together but there is a problem with my daughter going to her aunts or grandparents when his kids are around. But when it's just us three he doesn't mind one way or another if she spends the weekend where ever. The kids get there feelings hurt and he gets upset about that. So do I change the way she lives and hurt her feelings or do I make his kids priority like he wants just to keep the peace.