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mcneita's picture

My husband is 33 and his mother's only child. My husband has three kids two previous of our marriage. I have tried to be a good wife and mother from buying us a home, car and etc. We have a lot of issue with bills, baby mothers and the kids behavior. We have split multi times, had other relationships filed for divorce and always came back to each other. My issue with my husband is he make around 30000 a year and we have 4000.00 in bills and month child care is 800.00 alone. I made around 80000 a year and I recently lost my job. I worked retail hours and always had to work.When I lost my job I asked my husband to take over for two years to allow me to attend school for nursing. He responed with Im not a real wife of .....>> I love reality shows. It really hurt my feelings that I got us everything we had and he would not maintance it for two years. I was hurt. His parents told him not to allow me to drive his car( is in his parents name and they pay his car insurance)We have split again and I had no job and he will not help me pay any bills.. I raised hell and couple weeks ago and he started given me 200.00 a wweek.I went to his moms house and she told me that she told him not to pay any bills at my house. I told him I would take him to court for child support and he told thats all he would do infront of his mother. He has never made me feel like his wife its always been his parents first, kids and then me. We have a son together and they look like twin and his mother said she will never accept my son unless I get a DNA test. Im fighting a losing battle but it hurts like hell to walk away. I STARTED A NEW JOB ON 14 OF THIS MONTH..(RETAIL AGAIN!! NO LIFE)

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Most Evil's picture

Wow I hate to say that, but there is NO EXCUSE for this behavior from a grown man. I would DUMP HIS *SS and tell his mom to go (*&$ herself, for sure!!!!!! You have nothing to lose, because it sounds like they are just users anyway! (from what I read here).

There is a big world out there, plenty of men who are more of your caliber. You sound like you completely have your st*t together, so why shouldn't you be supported also. If he does not see that, you know what to do dear. Sorry honey Sad Hugs to you and hope it gets better
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StepMomOfAdults's picture

Reflect on your relationship. His mother's opionion aside - if it your relationship has only brought misery to your life - it's time to move on and focus on you and your child.
If you still love him - can you find away to convince him to move with you to town away from Momma - it sounds like she has a vested interest in poisoning your relationship.
Life is too short to put up with constant bull.