BM is at it again...
Well I had a decent laugh last night. My B/F had his 9 y.o. son last night and they went to get something to eat. While they were talking, his son said that BM told him that I was probably sick (I have a cold and bronchitis) because I was pregnant..... My B/F had a vasectomy while he was married to her!!! Why she would tell him something like that I don't know. Well, other than she is a psycho. The part that bothers me is that the little guy was the one who was sooo upset. I talked to him on the phone last night and he was crying and telling me he was worried that I would hate him because of what she says. That broke my heart. Obviously I assured him that he has nothing to do with any of this and that he has done nothing wrong. The best part of this is that he is realizing, on his own, what a psycho the BM is. My boyfriend and I never badmouth her around the kids, so it is nice to see that he is coming up with his own conclusions.
The only other good thing that came out of this....my B/F is actually starting to stand up to her. He has been putting up with her shit the entire time I have known him. Last night he sent her an email telling her to stop the BS. I was very proud of him too!! Maybe things are looking up....
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My DH told his son(17) that he couldn't see the menu and asked him to read something to him. He didn't bring his glasses to dinner with him that night. A couple weeks later in some documents from her attorney they filed with the court the BM said that DH was going blind and this would affect how he could care for the children. I fell over laughing.. Your SS seems young enough but a SS 17 should know better.. goes to show he goes home and tells BM everything, sickening..
I am pregnant as well due Nov 3rd. My H had a vasectomy as well while he was married to BM. She is going to die when she finds out .. she probably thinks her kids are the only kids he will ever have.. think again lady..
laughter is the best medicine
sometimes I can get VERY upset with the situation I'm in,
There has probably been 5 very searous FIGHTS we have had in the last 7 years over "her". But for the most part I really do try and laugh about the stupid things that she does, or comes out of her mouth, she tries sooooo hard to think shes the top dog that it really cracks me up, SHE'S the one that got knocked up at 16 by some other guy,SHE'S the one that didn't graduate from high school ( now is 42 and still hasent)
SHE'S the one that doesn't work to support her son ( and he knows this. obvoiously)
SO HELL YA I laugh my butt off all the time,she doesn't have a clue how much laughter she actually brings to my house???
( I should tell her this sometime)
Aka, so he had a reversal?
My DH and I have thought about it. We have seen the doctor...now need to come up with the money! I am glad to hear a success story and by the way, my bio-daughter was born Nov. 3 (2000).
Congrats!
"God grant me the serenity accept the things I cannot change; the strength to change the things I can; and the wisdom to know the difference."
We actually did IVF.. There
We actually did IVF.. There is a new procedure out there called (PESA). They use this when the male had a vasectomy more than 10 years prior or if there is male infertility issues. It is amazing and works well with IVF. They take sperm directly from the male with a needle and fertlize the eggs right then and there. I feel so blessed. His doctor told us that a vasectomy refersal would more than likely not work since is was done more than 10 years ago. I was so upset.. i thought not only do I have to deal with the crazy BM and his ungrateful kids I would never have kids of my own.. Until we read about this procedure.. It was worth a shot and poof we are pregnant...IM me if you want to know more. You can read about it here http://www.ivf.havingbabies.com/icsi-tesa-pesa.html
If you medical insurance covers IVF it actually has more of a sucess rate with this procedure than a reversal.
Don't they have anything better to do??
The BM that I'm dealing with is always trying to get BF's attention. When the emails don't work she will call the house and his cellphone. She leaves messages saying "I need to talk to you about OUR daughter". She still hasn't got the hint that there is nothing to talk about. He sent her an email regarding the harrassment and constant interference of visitation. She still hasn't responded and it's almost been a week. LOL She must still be in shock!! I am so proud of him for finally putting his foot down. I'm sure she will retaliate in one way or another but I'm enjoying the peace and quiet. If we couldn't laugh we would go insane!!!