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Submitted by maria14 on Fri, 10/26/2012 - 8:51pm

I have not posted in a LONG time. But in the past four months, things went to shit.

SS SUED us. Because DH took him off our health insurance without being clear about it. And SS got into an accident without coverage. And he won. Guess how much we have to pay him? 233 THOUSAND!

That is more than our house is worth. DH tried explaining to him how we would be financially ruined. SS did not give a F***. He hates us all too much to care.

DH submitted a payment plan that SS accepted. We will be broke. We will be living bare minimum. No contributions to our retirement for the next 10 years minimum.

Just F*** SS. DH does not want anything to do with him. And I wish this hurt SS but he must be more than happy. He is doing great in school, more money than he will ever needs as a a student. DH's family treats him like a god. Just F*** him. I need to go back to work if we will be able to send my son to college. With my MS. It F******* sucks.

I needed to get this out of my system.

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Submitted by prozac_nation on Fri, 10/26/2012 - 9:26pm

yes^^

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Submitted by MarriedaBalless... on Fri, 10/26/2012 - 10:27pm

OMG, that is one of the most horrible things EVER! What a selfish piece of shit!

I'm soooo sorry you have to deal with this Maria. I hope you can get a good lawyer and get some relief.

How could someone who is supposed to love you do that?!?

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Submitted by StickAFork on Fri, 10/26/2012 - 10:56pm

Posters, read the history. This SS is anything BUT a terrible piece of entitled shit.
As a teen, he worked to help support his dying mother.
His father has been... well, you can read for yourself.
SS was even sending checks to cover his share of the insurance... but Op's DH stopped covering him.

This story is long and ugly, and I'd encourage you to read up on it. I respect this young man immensely.

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Submitted by reallifedrama on Sat, 10/27/2012 - 9:06am

I agree SAF. I was all ready to respond with what a heartless shit the kid is last night, but I went and read the blog history.

The son actually seems to be following advice many would give to a SP of the roles were reversed. I'm glad he was able to walk away from his father AND at least take SOMETHING from it....although, I'm guessing that if the father had acted like a father, the son wouldn't have considered money. He sounds like a stand up guy.

My kids father passed away recently from cancer and I know the pain and anguish the kids go through. This kid was going to school, and caring for his mother. He was taking on the responsibilities of an adult fully. I just hope that he can now move on and live a peaceful and happy life.

OP-here's my advice: You should move on, too. If a man treats his own flesh and blood like shit, it's hard to believe he can truly care for anyone. Why should you be financially burdened by your husband's poor decisions for the rest of your life? You and your son could move on, create a life for yourselves, and if necessary, do what your SS did and take your husband to court for his financial responsibilities to you and your son.

Good luck and hopefully you figure this mess out.

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Submitted by reallifedrama on Sat, 10/27/2012 - 9:22am

Yeah, I saw that. It's such a shame.

I can't wrap my head around why he would take care of one kid, who is living in a household that is intact, but turn his back on the kid who was working his ass off, taking care of a dying mom (and eventually passed away), and paying for things that most minors parents pay for.

The poor kid already has been through so dayumn much and kept such a strong sense of morals, integrity, and although SM has made this post seem otherwise, this kid was TOTALLY SELFLESS through it all.

I would like to shake hands with the judge and by them a drink. I can tell you from my own experience, it is VERY difficult for a kid to deal with all the emotions of their parent dying, let alone maintain adult responsibilities like that child did. I hope he takes the money and goes on a vacation.

I think it is rare that the karma bus actually hits. I'm so glad to see it has here.

At least the DH, SM, and their kid aren't living through their mother dying and being responsible for their needs. If SS was good enough to go to a soup kitchen to eat, they are, too....no? If not, then maria and son need to leave and take DH to court for alimony and CS, and the son can get a job. I'm sure maria can get assistance as well. The kid didn't even have these options and he made it through.

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Submitted by needinginwardpeace on Sat, 10/27/2012 - 8:54am

If I found out that any child in our home was at a food bank, I would be absolutely ashamed of us for not doing something and would step up immediately. I would never let that go unnoticed. Nobody should go hungry, especially your family.

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Submitted by StickAFork on Sat, 10/27/2012 - 10:47am

Maria, I should be clear... I don't blame you for this. Your DH is a "man" I could not bring myself to even look at, let alone respect.
I'm sorry you're upset you'll have to work to help support your son's college fund. Of course, there's nothing wrong with making him figure it out like SS had to do...work, scholarships, loans, etc. If it was good enough for SS, it should be good enough for BS.
He could even sell his fancy $7K car and use the proceeds for college.
You are angry at the wrong people. You are angry with SS and your DH's entire family (who've rightly sided with SS.) IMO, you need to be balls-out, furious with your DH. He has been a terrible father, and the karma bus has hit him square in the ass. As long as you're hitched to him, you're going down with him. At least SS must feel some vindication.

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Submitted by reallifedrama on Sat, 10/27/2012 - 11:42am

I think the title of this blog screams out the facts........I'd refer back to inconsistencies, but really, it be a waste of time. Besides that, I think others here have already pointed many of them out.

Going to clean my dayum car and if I happen to get in an accident along the way, I'm going to try to sue my father for stopping my in insurance years ago and making me pay for it. I sure could use $233,ooo!!!! Wish me that kind of "magical" luck!

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Sat, 10/27/2012 - 1:23pm

"That boy has had a rough road that was paved for him by his own bio parents. And he obviously has overcome it and survived and did it with dignity, grace and decency.

Shame on your DH, as the only living parent, for doing this to his son."

^^^THIS^^^

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Sat, 10/27/2012 - 1:21pm

I have to agree with SAF and snickers.

I agree with the court's decision. The decision to take ss off the insurance was unfair, IMHO.I know ss hasn't been a saint, but he doesn't sound as nearly as bad as many other skids, and he's been through a lot more than most of them.

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Submitted by whatwasithinkin on Sun, 10/28/2012 - 2:15pm

I smell BS. At lasts she wrote she stated 12 grand in hospital bills, and this was a car insurance case.

Let's look at car insurance. Even if you only have liability insurance, in most states that means you have PIP protection. Personal injury protection. I have never seen a car insurance policy that would not cover 12 grand in hospital bills. That is number one

Number 2? Really? 4 months ago? even if it was 1 year ago? it took and takes almost over 3 years to even get your case heard.

And 233,000.00 sounds like an inflated lawsuit amount.

Like I sued for 1.5 million dollars, the person was insured for $300,000.00. But like the lawyer said...you always go for your max...somethings strange here.

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Submitted by whatwasithinkin on Sun, 10/28/2012 - 2:34pm

this was a car insurnace case. if son had car insurance then he has PIP (personal injury protection.) I had a catasrophic car accident when I was 21 almost lost my leg. And my bills were noone near 233 grand. Sounds like the inflated number an attorney sues for knowing that it is not ever going to happen (my suit was for 1.5 million I got 300 grand the max the insurance would allow) From previous blogs she stated the medical bills were 12 grand.

and there is no way this went to court this fast it takes 3 years.

sounds like they may have agreed outside of court which is not the smartest thing to do.

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