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Submitted by maria14 on Fri, 10/26/2012 - 8:51pm

I have not posted in a LONG time. But in the past four months, things went to shit.

SS SUED us. Because DH took him off our health insurance without being clear about it. And SS got into an accident without coverage. And he won. Guess how much we have to pay him? 233 THOUSAND!

That is more than our house is worth. DH tried explaining to him how we would be financially ruined. SS did not give a F***. He hates us all too much to care.

Lessons for others to learn

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Submitted by maria14 on Mon, 05/14/2012 - 4:11pm

I have been MIA from this site for a while now. I can't recognize anyone here anymore. I just wanted to give out a few lessons we learned the hard way. And hopefully, it'll help someone else out there.

1) If you are going to go to war with your ex, only the kid gets hurt. DH got into a legal fight with BM and all we got out of it was SS not telling what happened with his life anymore. Because of this, DH lost the relationship with his son.

Tiny update

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Submitted by maria14 on Wed, 10/26/2011 - 1:04pm

I have not put up a blog in a LONG time. I just wanted to put a little update out there. Things are still terrible between us and SS. DH's family has turned against us completely. Now if SS is going to be at a gathering, we are not even invited. More than anything this hurts my son. He loves his grandmother and uncle. They come over once in a while too see him but that is it. I guess they like playing favorites with kids.

At a loss of what to do

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Submitted by maria14 on Mon, 10/03/2011 - 11:51am

SS got fired from his Starbucks job. His loser cousin from his mother's side decided to go there while he was working and make a scene. I saw this kid before and he is a disgrace. He tries to act like some sort of gangster. My BIL told me that SS was on shaky ground because of that but when he could not put in hours on a weeknight when he has sports practice, they fired him. He has been trying to get another job but he cannot seem to find one. My BIL only found out about all this when SS came to stay over on the weekend.

Overstepped my bounds? I don't give a flip

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Submitted by maria14 on Fri, 09/23/2011 - 11:02am

I called SS, after telling my DH of course, and told him that we would be at the dinner as well. It was not right that we were going to do some Jerry Springer thing on him. I called because we felt he would be more receptive to me than my DH. First, he went off on how we got his number. And to never call him again. And he told us not to show up at the dinner or he will leave. He hung up on me. Well, nice talking to you too SS. I am sure DH's family will find out and say it was not my place. But I spent more time with SS as he was growing up than all of them so I don't give a flip there.

Anyone else something wring with this plan?

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Submitted by maria14 on Wed, 09/21/2011 - 11:05am

My BIL invited SS over to his house for dinner and to stay the night. This Friday. He invited all of my DH's family and shocker, we got invited too. He told us SS does not know we are coming but he thinks this will be a great opportunity for them to talk it out. Can anyone else see this becoming a f****** DISASTER? |Of course, if I do not go I will be the bitch who does not want her SS and her husband to reconcile. F*** me...

Thank you SS, for being an a-hole

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Submitted by maria14 on Thu, 09/08/2011 - 5:03pm

My son was grumpy the whole day yesterday. I had no reason why until I logged into his Facebook. I log into his Facebook regularly to make sure he isn't up to anything inappropriate. Yes, I know I am invading his privacy but when he lives on his own, he can have all the privacy he wants. I also use the opportunity to see what SS is up to. SS has blocked both of us and only has my son on there.

Very awkward run in with SS

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Submitted by maria14 on Tue, 08/23/2011 - 1:22pm

We have not heard from him since he moved into a room he is sharing with two others. These are two people we have never met. My BIL told me they looked to be nice students. But of course it is not going to stop my DH from worrying. The other day, we were in the area that SS's college is in. We went there because my DH's cousin was having a engagement party. Of course, we went there and we had to field questions about SS. EVERYONE knows about what happened. We are the new gossip of the month. I was very uncomfortable there. One of my DH's aunts says to me, "Poor child.

SS leaving for college

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Submitted by maria14 on Fri, 08/19/2011 - 8:08am

SS is offically moving into his new place today. He was supposed to leave on Wednesday but things happened and he wants to leave now. My DH even tried giving him the money with no strings attached AT ALL. But SS refused to even speak to him and walked out of BIL's house. My DH then tried to pass money to SS through his brother. He did this so that SS would think that the money came from BIL instead of from my DH. SS saw that coming a mile away and got pissed off.

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