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I'm soooo mad right now!

Manda's picture

FH has been trying to get me out with friends of mine that I've had for a long time but I've been hesitant. I have been hesitant because I stay out way too long...feel like crap the next day and they are all single and all want me to be their "wingman" which is really not right, now that I'm committed. FH doesn't understand why I don't want to go out with my single friends anymore but I see that I need to explain it to him...yes, I need to keep in contact with my friends but I just dont feel the need to go "out" (which is always a bar or night club) with them!

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Manda's picture

Yes, I agree with that, however he was sneaky last night and I was thinking that WE were going out to meet up with a friend of mine....however he bails out after 2 drinks and basically tells me to stay out with one of my girlfriends that is single. I ended up being the "wingman" for her and had some other creepy guy hitting on me. Then, on top of that I had to call a cab to take me home because my friend was all over some guy when I was ready to go. What I'm trying to get at is that single and committed friends just have different priorities and most of my friends are single so there is a reason that I don't go out with them as often. When I do ask those friends to go out, such as to dinner or to see a movie it always seems to end at a bar...

Squillion's picture

Manda, your boyfriend has serious issues. Where was he when he left you at the bar? Do you know what he was doing?

terbear9's picture

I agree with Squillion. I also question your friends, sound very selfish. You have a right to say "NO". If you want to hang out with your single friends invite them to your house for appetizers and drinks before they head to the bar. You could also meet them for breakfast or lunch.