SD11 decided she wanted to go home yesterday like a normal eow visit instead of staying the extra night until the holiday! She made up some bs excuse, but I think it had something to do w/the fact that DH took her cell phone away after giving her hell for running up minutes talking to some boy. Don't know what this means for the potential summer visit yet because I'm sure it'd be like being in hell for her having to go to daycare and not being able to talk to her friends (BM still has landline but we don't), but at this point unfortunately I'm not sure it even matters anymore because the clarity I recieved from some of this weekend's observations leads me to view this summer visit situation as a potential "out" for all of us!