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Dealing with the EXW and 2SD!

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Never would I have ever thought a Biological Mother would still after 20 or more years still be jealous of her children or ex husband?!
I met him Sept 12, 2006. Good heaven they have been divorced since the 80's?
I will not get inbetween the main characters here! it is a no win situiation and I am too smart to be played as a pawn!
Adult step daughter just want their dad's. They do not want the step mother in any way shape or form! They have a mother! best to just be supportive of your husband and steer clear of them.
Life is great with just him and I. Add 1 of his daughters and we have tension and stress! The oldest he feels he cannot please due to she is moody and not a happy girl. The youngest he feels he owes a debt to? And the youngest knows this!
The oldest to be tries hardest to communicate with her dad where the youngest manipulates things to make everything look wonderful!
Ya know what the youngest wins and would win even if she murdered someone in her dad's eyes. I am steering clear of this! I will never win and no point in pushing the issue or even entertaining it!
I have my own daughter. I have a life and do not need the stress this would cause! I love my Husband but he is dead wrong the way he favors his girls!

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The youngest SD has a boyfriend who after observing him last summer he is a binge drinker. I mean 10am and a beer? hello? he cannot go without a drink! I had nothing better to do with a broken leg last summer during a "Family" vacation and had nothing better to do but watch the young adult children and their various different behaviors.
Anyway. I did voice my opinion about the boyfriend when asked! Now I am the bad guy. But ya kn0ow what? I can hang! I will not apologise nor retract what i verbalized. he has to prove it to everyone he is worthy individual. He comes from a upper class family who thinks he is wonderful. I mean no job and moving in fast on the SD? The SD is one who loves to prove people wrong so we shall see on this one!
I am told I was played like a fiddle by the EXBM? No not really I stand by what I said!
I voiced how I see it and feel about it. But this is yet another lesson learned. Steer clear!
So as usual the DH fell for his daughters boo hoos!
I am going to work and try to be insightful and smile!
Have a great day everyone!