I missed it, Only got to see a small clip online. Was not impressed. I am hoping to be able to view the full program online if I can find it. I came into the picture when the youngest of my two ss's was in preschool and the oldest was in oldest was in 3rd. The oldest and I hit it off right away, the youngest it took a few months, he only spent time with his parents, grandmother and a very few teen baby sitters prior to the BM walking out on the family when it was discovered for the 3rd time that she was having another affair.

My friend who later turned into my boyfriend = and now husband took care of his two young boys on his own. BM had very little to do with the boys and he had primary placement. Coming into the picture with 4 children of my own having primary placement with limited contact with the biof and restricted visits in my case, I did everything. Attended all the games, made the vday cards, attended the music programs etc. The BM in my case never even purchased store vday card to send home with the boys after visits so that we could send them to school, she never showed up at school programs or took the boys for their school checkup's etc.

Why would I not take on the role to provide for the boys in this way. If the BM in our case would have even reached out to her children in this way that would have been wonderful! I used to contact her when the boys were younger about school pictures, sending mother's day cards to her along with a gift, sending emails to see if she wanted copies of her oldest son's homecoming and prom pictures but never getting a response. I have stopped making these attempts after she began to claim that I was calling and leaving messages were I was swearing at her, calling names and such. Cant risk getting accused of untrue things anymore. Would like things to be better but as the BM showed yesterday, She really does not want things to get better. She is too tied up in her misery. Very sad.