SD 27 wants to be a Police officer. She has done all her testing to be accepted into the Police academy. She has one last process before she can be accepted. The Background check.

Me and DH both have a form to complete with several questions. The form is the same for both of us.

Some of the questions:

How long have you known applicant: um all her life

Are you convinced that applicant is honest: No lies ALL.THE.Time. big lies little lies. Shit she doesn't need to lie about.

Is applicant Reliable: Nope

Our DS17 moved out of the house to my Mom's house last Thursday.

Little back story. SD27 hasn't been doing her chores since last month (Sept). Thursday night DS was supposed to clean the kitchen after dinner. He refused and I suspended his cell phone. He was livid. He packed a few bags and walked to my moms. Its about 1 1/2 miles.

I totally understand why he is mad. I did talk with him and told him it is my job as his parent to make sure he learns to do things and is held accountable. That it is his Dad's job to make sure SD is doing what is required.

Yesterday afternoon our DS17 had 2 friends over. He and his Dad (DH) had been on a 2 week vacation to Mexico and returned late Sunday night.

He and his friends made some sandwiches and were going to go to the Pool in our community but it was really dirty. So they just decide to hang out at the house. DS is 17 and his 2 friends are 18 and 20. The 18 year old just graduated high school and his Girl friend is a little older then him.

DH's birthday is coming up. He sent me a text wanting his "special Birthday present" I text him back stating that I was angry with him and that we needed to have a talk and maybe think about counseling. He text me on his birthday saying he feels old and that "special Birthday present" would make him feel young or at least better. I text him back "lol nice try but that wasn't going to work".