So, as many of you know, my DH have had our disagreements b/c of the sloppy skids. They're SS22 and SD16. I've done what some of you have suggested - let him clean up after them.

There's only one full bath so we ALL share it. It's gross really. So Saturday, SD16, for the third time, left a dirty tampon floating in urine in the toilet! I just left it there. When he walked in, he asked if I left it for him to see. I admitted that I did. (About 3 weeks ago, I told SD16 to make sure her tampons are properly flushed.) He flushed it and never said anything about it to SD.

So, I recently put up my money (I earned it alone) to help add a two car garage and a bigger master bedroom to my DH's existing home. The plan: I put up the money, we do a cash, put my name on the deed, take the money from the cash out to compensate what I spent.

1. I know some of you may think I'm an idiot for putting my money in without being on the deed. You're right! I should've thought this through more carefully. .

2. SS22 lives here with us in his own room. Obviously, I want him out.

So yesterday I was at a crossroads about whether or not I should speak to my SD16. (See yesterday's post)

I went to see a counselor b/c I am at my wit's end - I don't know how to make myself happy in my situation.

So this weekend was a bad!! We met with the SS22 and SD16 to find out why they don't clean their rooms and that was a nightmare. My DH basically told them that I pay bills here and they need to expect that I want things a certain way -- clean rooms. SD16 responded,
"They are OUR rooms."
Okay folks, do you think if the kids have their own rooms they're free to do what they want in/to those rooms?

SS22 said he pays the cable bill, so why does he have to do anything else? OMFG!!!!