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It isn't allergies, sd has pneumonia
The school called this morning and said sd was having chest pain and a fever. Dh took her back to the dr and they think she has pneumonia so she is at the ER with dh. I did a quick search and it is caused by a bacteria infection so dh can't blame this on Bear!! I feel bad for sd, the poor thing has been through the ringer. I'm going to get her favorite take out meal tonight and maybe a teddy bear or something. What do teen girls like?
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Sd had an asthma attack
Sd has been taking her allergy meds but she is still having some reaction to bs dog, Bear. Dh took her to the doc on Friday and she has bronchitis. Her doc switched her allergy meds and last night she had an asthma attack. Her inhaler didn't do much so dh called 911. She was released early this morning so she is still asleep. Dh is pissed and blaming Bear over this. I told him she could just be sick and leave Bear out of this. I'm making an appointment with an allergist first thing Monday. I will not get rid of Bear, she can go live with her mother first. Ds is more important to me!!
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She is moved in
It was dhs weekend with sd so he got her Friday and went to return her Sunday but bm was gone. G.O.N.E. She left and didn't say goodbye to sd and she took ALL of sds belongings with her. Her clothes, her tooth brush, her drumsticks she left, her mother took it all! I knew we had to buy some stuff but this was just mean and cruel. You don't hurt your child like this no matter how mad you are. Sd is walking around like a zombie and she is weepy. Dh took her shopping for some clothes but he can't replace what she had right away.
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Bm and her ex dh going on 8th grade trip
This is happening to my best friend. Her dh got selected to be a parent chaperone for his sons 8th grade trip. He will be supervising his son and 3 other boys on the trip and will sleep on the same hotel room floor. It's 4 days. I guess they needed chaperones who are the same sex of the child on the trip and then parents are also welcome to attend and hang out with their child if they want to. Her dhs bm decided she was going to go and my friend found out last night when bm texted her dh to ask a question about the trip.
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Setting the rules
Hi everyone,
Can you please give me some advice on setting ground rules? Sd is moving in at the end of the month. She has always stayed at dh's parents or with her mom. Her coming to our home is new and I'm starting to get nervous. I want to approach dh and make sure we are on the same page for both sd and bs as they are about the same age. I thought about getting a poster and making a list of the rules so she will know them. I know she will mess up at first as she learns what is expected and what is not accepted. Any tips?
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Bm is moving!!
Bm called dh this morning and was begging him to let her take sd. She offered all kinds of incentives (she called them that). She offered no child support and all transportation covered for every break. Dh doesn't believe bm would follow through with that. As soon as they moved bm would back out, I am sure. Dh told her nope. So then she got mad and started screaming at him. He quit answering her calls and this afternoon she sent him a text saying she is moving at the end of the month and does he want to BUY sds stuff from her. Dh texted back no. Lol!!!
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Nobody won?
I don't understand this. Bm isn't allowed to move sd but she still retains custody? We only get custody if bm moves and now she is saying she may not. How can she say she isn't going to move now?
Bm told dh she would give him custody, she told him she would handle it with her attorney and send him the paperwork so he could head out and she'd call him when the paperwork was ready. He decided not to trust her which was good because she denied saying it when his attorney asked her about it. I think she was hoping he would leave and she could say he was a no show.
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Bm gave him custody
Nothing is official yet. Dh called this morning to say bm wanted to make a deal. She will allow sd to stay with dh but dh has to meet half way for summer, spring break, fall break and winter break for pick up and drop offs. She will pay child support but it will be minimal since she is a stay at home mom. Dh is responsible for medical and dental expenses and all extra circular activities. If sd stops taking her allergy meds or wants to move with bm then dh has to allow it. He said no to that part. I am waiting to hear the outcome.
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Court tomorrow
Dh and bm go to court tomorrow over who gets sd. When will we find out? Will the judge rule then or do we have to wait and get the ruling in the mail?
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I don't know whether to laugh or have a screaming crying rage fit!
I'll be honest that i am torn right now. I'm also on my phone so please excuse my mistypes. Dh took sd to dinner Friday night and asked her what she wanted to do. Sd told him if she discussed it with him he would get in trouble with the judge. Dh set her straight. He explained he needed to know where she was mind wise and she flat out told him she wasn't moving. She told him 3, THREE people!!! 3, three, THREE drum spots were opening up next year for band and her band director said one spot was hers if she continued to practice. So she isn't moving because she earned this.