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Dh's dad called him last night and offered to pay for an apartment for 3 months for him and sd. His thinking is that this will show the court dh is serious about taking custody. Dh can then use that 3 months to figure out a way to help sd with her allergies. If after 3 months there is no improvement they can move into his parents house. Dh and his dad are going to look into apartments today to try and find one that does short term leases in her school zone so he can tell the court she won't have to switch schools. Once dh has custody he can move where he wants right?

What is the difference in the options?

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DH agrees with everybody. He is going to take sd to dinner tomorrow and find out what she wants. If she wants to stay then she will need to tell her mother herself and dh will talk to bm after. If she wants to move he isn't sure he can stop fighting and let her go. He knew he needed a better plan with court so he is going to call the district and find out if she can finish the school yr at her current school, talk to his parents about decorating a room for sd and leasing part of their house/rooms to show the court he is stable and sd has her own room.

Another allergy question/moving with military issue

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Hi. My name is Libbie and I am kinda new here. I've been here about a week. I have a similar issue as another poster (the allergy one) but my sd is 10 times worse with it. Let me start from the beginning. Dh is divorced for 10 years and sd is 14, his one and only child who he gets every other weekend. I have a bs who is 14 whose dad committed suicide after it was discovered he was molesting ds. He shot himself in front of ds. Ds has severe anxiety issues because of the hell he went through. Dh and I have been together 3 years and married for 2.

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