I'll be honest that i am torn right now. I'm also on my phone so please excuse my mistypes. Dh took sd to dinner Friday night and asked her what she wanted to do. Sd told him if she discussed it with him he would get in trouble with the judge. Dh set her straight. He explained he needed to know where she was mind wise and she flat out told him she wasn't moving. She told him 3, THREE people!!! 3, three, THREE drum spots were opening up next year for band and her band director said one spot was hers if she continued to practice. So she isn't moving because she earned this. Dh told her no matter what she wouldn't be a drummer in the band at that school because she refused to take allery meds and therefore had to live out of our school zone. So sd said, and get this people, she said, "so i will take allergy meds." She said it all while looking at him like he was stupid. Dh told her to prove it so when they left and went to a pharmacy she took it like it was no big deal. She took Claritin. They waited an hour and then he surprised ds and I by bring her by. She had some sneezing and watery eyes but overal she was fine. She spent the weekend at our house and the mornings she had it rough till the meds kicked in. We vacumed and wiped couches down and swept alot. I'm just torn on wanting to be happy and wanting to rip her damn neck off for the bull she has put us through!! Dh called his lawyer this morning to see what this means but he hasn't heard back. Bm gave birth to a cow, or at least i think she did with how she was screaming and carrying on when sd got home.