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CLove's picture

Submitted by CLove on Wed, 10/05/2022 - 10:40am

so, Sd16 Pouty Mc Pouterson got called out on her "sour face" as Husband calls it.

Guess what SD PMP said?

"Clove gives me 'the face' so I give her 'the face' back.

Whaaaaaaaa?

Egads. If I wasnt walking on eggshells already, I would be all over that.

And of course in the same conversation there was "shes my child if you love me you love her too" along with the trope "shes just a teenager they are all like this". And "shes going to end up like her sister (hes giving up) just without the meds"... 

Its all petty shite. She brought up that whole thing of last year. Im too sensitive. I took care of her while Husband fished. Took her snorkeling, to dinner, to breakfast. And thats all she can come up with. Husband just sais "she will appreciate it later..."

And the sad thing is I dont really care anymore. I told him this too. I dont care if she fails, I dont care if shes happy or sad. I dont care what happens. 

Just MEH. I thought I should just share the dissappointment...being generous is in my nature.

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Winterglow's picture

Submitted by Winterglow on Wed, 10/05/2022 - 11:09am

Well, at least now you will feel no remorse in doing absolutely zilch for her. She's set her mother on you and now she's tried to set her father on you.

FWIW, your husband's reaction was pathetic. He has lumped all his responsibility onto you with glee because it let him do what he wants without having the hassle of being a parent. Put it all back on him that if he has two failed kids, he only has himself to blame. Did he really think that kids raised themselves? I am angry for you. 

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Wed, 10/05/2022 - 11:34am

And with that "revelation", evil Aniki would take not caring another step by maintaining a poker face the few times I have to be around Sour Face and never looking her in the eye the rare times I speak with her; looking to the side, over her head, or at her chin.

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Submitted by Ispofacto on Wed, 10/05/2022 - 11:44am

Buttmunch the twunt.  So friggin disrespectful.

"I know you are but what am I" is the song of the narcissist.

 

Harry's picture

Submitted by Harry on Wed, 10/05/2022 - 12:03pm

He would not let his kids disrespect you, He would stop his kids back stabbing you. Make his kids act human 

CLove's picture

Submitted by CLove on Wed, 10/05/2022 - 12:06pm

Yeah. That darn respect thingy.

Well, They are part troll, so I think expecting humanity to pop out is too much of a burden.

ESMOD's picture

Submitted by ESMOD on Wed, 10/05/2022 - 12:12pm

The correct parental response is...

I am not Clove's parent.. and I am not talking to her.. I am talking to YOU.. and I expect better of you and if you can't be a pleasant person to be around.. you can go and be miserable in your room alone.

CLove's picture

Submitted by CLove on Wed, 10/05/2022 - 12:53pm

Ill suggest that. In the moment I was too far into WTF mode...

Rags's picture

Submitted by Rags on Wed, 10/05/2022 - 1:13pm

 I would have been all over her like she shit she is behaving as for that comment.

This would get the Adult Vs Kid lecture.

This would get the respect of adults lecture.

This would get the "CLove is my wife and I will not tolerate anyone disrespecting my wife, paticularly not a nasty ill behaved child." lecture.

This would get the zero tolerance for this kid's crap consequeces and result in a complete, total, escalating abject misery existence.

Lather.... rinse.... repeat.

Grrrrr!

Diablo

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Submitted by CajunMom on Wed, 10/05/2022 - 1:35pm

But not before I told both of them to keep me out of their mess because I am NOT the mom. And since there is no "mom figure" here, then you, DH, and YOUR daughter handle your problems. And then I'd have left the room. SMH

Stay strong. They both are recognizing your disengagement and are trying to gaslight you...bring you back into their  triangulation. Let them figure their own crap out. 

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Submitted by PetSpoiler on Wed, 10/05/2022 - 2:58pm

"If you love me, then you'll love my child",    Not if your child is being unlovable.  My husband may have thrown that line at me back when the Lying Ingrate was a kid.  He actually did parent SS aka Lying Ingrate but didn't quite break him from lying and being fake.  We can at least say that he did launch and is a productive member of society.  He would've insisted that SS treat me with respect.  

Your husband is failing you and PMP, just as he failed Feral Forger.  I am sorry.  Whether or not all teenagers are like that, it doesn't matter.  Doesn't make it ok.

thinkthrice's picture

Submitted by thinkthrice on Wed, 10/05/2022 - 6:00pm

Just a spin on the old chestnut: "we're a package deal."

Bad

AlmostGone834's picture

Submitted by AlmostGone834 on Wed, 10/05/2022 - 5:21pm

"If you love me..." is it just me or is that phrase very manipulative sounding??

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Submitted by SeeYouNever on Wed, 10/05/2022 - 5:59pm

Absolutely.

I had to explain to my husband that he loves SD and loves me but there is no relationship transitive property so SD and I shouldnt be expected to love each other just because we both love DH.