I have been dealing with my SD's acting out for 22 years,including running away,theft,jailtime,and putting our Grandson up for adoption without telling us....this is only a few of the trials..but she was young and bitter about her Dad's divorce and we understood and forgave times 777.now at age 32.after 3 marriages and 4 children she hasn't seemed to learn anything..she still lies,acts out by throwing everything we give her (or our Grandchildren) away,post slanderous things on a website :jawdrop: and keeps us from even talking to the kids on the phone. We have been there when she needed us,kept the kids when she had a health issue,had a huge Christmas for them last year the first time we were all together on Christmas morning since she was 15!!! but after reading these posts,our hearts are crushed..I don't think I can ever feel like trying so hard anymore.my DH is just done..and so tired of it all..I am the one who keeps trying..for the kids,and for her....these were some awful,horrid,evil lies she wrote..she got a lot of attention and sympathy confusing a lot of things and totally making up the rest..what should I do..be the Mature adult and just look over it..???confronting her would do no good she doesn't "like to be told"..and runs when she knows she is in the wrong..she runs a lot!!!as she would deny she was the one who posted the lies and I printed them out with her latest wedding picture right on there,,that I took.!!!.we worry about the Grandchildren..advice please...