Here we are in the midst of it all and no word from SD 32 although she has contacted people she doesnt even know..and yes it hurts...I know she is mentally unstable,but she plays a good game... I have made excuses for her behavior for over 20 years but at least she could ask how we are as we were just evacuated from Nags head...when does it stop hurting???I did send her a post that she was in our thoughts and prayers, she is so cold to us...life is fragile and I don;t know how to reach her selfish being...everything I say is wrrong and she wants to cut us out of her life and I miss the Grandkids so much and worry about them..she now has a sprained knee and is seeing an ortho on Monday the same day i am scheduling a scope for my knee but I can't say anything because then she will say I am stealing her thunder..she got twisted in the dog leash and has a brace from stem to stern...how much drama..just so very sad when I want her to care about us and know she never will..strange thing is I am seeing my orthopod Monday to dscuss surgery on my lleft knee but cant tell her ..then it would be all about me and I cant do that..she is so angry I asked another person about my Grandsons well being while they were in the other persons care.....prayers for all those in harms way from Irene....just feel like she couldn't care less and I am right..just so sad...sorry just had to vent..as we are on the Eastern seaboard and it is rough here...my son and friends have checked in many times but never her...:(dis engaging is never easy ..how do you stop thinking about them every dat????