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Submitted by Lalena75 on Fri, 05/31/2013 - 8:35pm

BM never showed to get her kids, she refused to answer SO's text on if/when she planned to get them after her foul mouthed rant. We assume she's getting them after work tomorrow only we both work later than her, so my parents are watching them and she will have to come to me on my time when I say to collect her kids because SO works later than I do. She tried to tell him he was a terrible father for not wanting his kids more and should take lessons from the dads who fight to see their kids more. Please woman please give him more ammo against you.

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Submitted by Lalena75 on Fri, 05/31/2013 - 10:07pm

The CO giving them joint custody was just made legal 10 days ago. The wording is vague on who the CP is as our state doesn't differentiate unless forced by behavior, but with the way it's worded I've had 2 lawyers say it's giving her visitation and he's primary for what it worth here. She's always just assumed she will always call the shots and that's not how joint works (physical and legal) I'm printing out a explanation of joint custody for her lol I just have to! From her behavior since it was signed an sealed we don't think she's read it. They went to mediation she didn't say much according to SO, she really wasn't sure what they were supposed to do just that her lawyer told her to and her lawyer is the one who offered the most recent version of the CO to SO and he finally agreed it was almost everything he wanted or could ask for just missing some extra detail the mediator, and BM's lawyer didn't want. She's tried to tell him it wasn't legal because they haven't gone to the next court date and other ignorant gibberish. She's pissed she now can't manipulate him, she doesn't want her kids, but she doesn't want him to have them either if only I could get her on recording saying so. I figure between now and his end of June court date case mgmt and to finalize the divorce portion we're going to already have enough to make adjustments to the CO, but will they do that so soon. Just wish she'd act right.
Tomorrow she deals with me directly to get the kids, that should be fun.

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Submitted by Lalena75 on Sat, 06/01/2013 - 7:18am

I plan to. We both work and my kids (oldest sometimes babysits for us) are at their dads. So my parents are kind enough to help us out. She'll get her kids from me if and when she shows up after I'm off work when I get home and no sooner. I won't accommodate her mouth or threats. She had asked if SO would watch them Sat (today now)if she had to work and he said yes but to confirm that's what she was doing, and figured she'd pick them up Friday and bring them back Sat or at least ask him to keep them Fri or communicate she had 4 days to say yes I'm working Sat can you keep them over Fri. Nope she runs off at the mouth making threats. She's all sorts of dumb.