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The new skids for BM

BM now has a new man in her life who has 3 children as well (BM can’t handle her 3 kids so I don’t know how she is going to handle 6, lol, but not my problem). Anyway I picked up SS13 yesterday and asked him how his weekend was with his mother. He said that he met BM partners kids. After our discussion about his kids I asked SS13 if they all came over to BM house and he said no we went to a restaurant but his other 2 brothers didn’t go to meet them not because they didn’t want to but because BM didn’t want to take them.

How did your DH/BF act when BM was with someone new for the first time.

BF and I have been together for 4 years now. BM has never had a full on relationship with anyone since BF and her split (only afew blow ins) until now.
She is with someone who she has just introduced to the skids (last Tuesday), she is talking about wanting to get married, settling down with someone etc... (she told the skids this). Anyway none of this bothers me in fact I'm happy about it cause that just means she wont be trying to cause trouble for us as much anymore (she always settles down alittle when someone new is in her life).

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SS13 Said I'm A Good Mum - Well Sort of

Last night I got home from work and BF decided that he would like to take SS13 and I out to dinner. The place that we went to was local and also the same place we order our take out from which I always pick up(it's also a resturant). Seeing that I've been to this place to pick up our meals many times in the past the owner remembers me and my name but never knew my situation.

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Feeling Down Today

I just want to know if anyone else feels this way.

Even though BF and I have been together for about 4 years, I still don’t feel apart of the family.

I have an ex husband who I longer see or talk to, we had no children together so we both went our separate ways.

BM is so Immature

On my way to pick up SS13 last night after work, some cow hit my brand new car of only 4 weeks :(. I called BF which he then called BM to advise her that I was running late because of the accident (BM and I don't speak, too many issues with eachother). Anyway I finally get to BM house and BM comes out checking out the damages to my car and laughing her head off until SS13 got in the car and we drove off. I'd like to see if she would be still laughing if someone smashed her new car a year ago when she got it.

I need your HELP!

BF and I both have full time jobs and I also teach singing every Wednesday evening as well, which means I don’t get home until about 8.30pm every Wednesday. Since SS13 has been living with us (about 3mths now) I have asked BF if he could please make sure that SS13 has a shower before I get home on a Wed (we are renovating the main bathroom, so at the moment we all need to share the ensuite) so I can go into my bedroom and get change etc.. I have also asked BF if he could please wash and clean up after dinner cause I don’t want to be doing it that late at night.

I'M SO ANGRY/FRUSTRATED WITH BM - NEED TO VENT

Please read my Blog Enough is Enough if you don't understand this entry.

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Chores

Sorry for annoying you guys all again.

Enough is Enough

I've had it. Nothing is ever good enough for BM. Last week BF and BM had a huge argument about a 4 day long weekend coming up. Yes it is our weekend with all 3 skids (1 lives with us already), she wants us to have all 3 skids from Friday through to Tuesday evening rather than dropping them off on Sunday evening. Anyway long story short, he agreed as per usual but also told her that this is the last time he has them extra wheather a public holiday falls on the Monday or not.

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