A stranger in my own home
The Skids are up here this weekend and yes again, they are walking around here ignoring me in my own house. Get this, the SD (15) said she didn't want to come up for 6 weeks as planned. So I begged the BF to just let the kids come up every other weekend. This gives the skids the opportunity to be with their friends in the summer. I am still the bad guy!!!! Skids get sent up last tuesday to spend the week with their grandma before comming here yesterday. Oh yes, they were told not to let us know! What we teach our kids to lie now. I know I am rambling, yet again, but damn. I should not feel like crap or feel like, they got yet another one over on us. My daughter called the SD out on not returning her calls. The SD said I never got them. I was there when she called and left a message. So what do I do, I pull out the phone bill and show her. All I got was a shrugged shoulder. When is enough enough!!! I have my own kids feeling to worry about and my own as well!! Thanks for listening.
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Vent away Kay!!
I read the words 'stanger in my own home' and it's like seeing my feelings. I know what you are saying. When my SS was coming here he ignored me for 2 and a half years in MY home. I know I used to feel uncomfortable to walk into my own lounge room if he was in there and he is only now 11. Imagine how stupid I felt to be shrunk to this by a 9/10 year old? It makes you feel for a while like you must be the one with the problem, I mean you are the adult they are the kids right? Wrong, they have that power because you just want to be accepted and treated like a friend, and to them you are the evil one they don't want here or with their dad.
Hang in there Kay, there is little you can do if you love this man and want to be with him. I chose to stay with Dh and struggle on, although there were weeks when I didn't think I could stand another day...but alas, SS has decided he just can't be around me and now at age 11 he has stopped coming by his own choice, but DH fights hard for him to return. I just shut my mouth and wait for the next wave of dread to roll in. Good luck.
Catch xx
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