I notice that alot of people on this site have fake names for their SK. I don't remember the poster's name..but "blabb" is the pseudonym on here. Do you ever call them by that name in real life?

I named BM "Ms. Piggy". That is what I have her under in my cel phone ..and that is what I call her in real life (except when her son is at our house). But if she calls..I say to FH "it's Ms. Piggy"..lol...just wondering..lol.

SS5 last night informs my BD13 and I that when he used to go to my FH's X's house (not SS5's mom) afterschool for her to babysit him that her current BF at the time would make him...even push him sometimes when he refused to..upstairs and "play". FH's "baby" would be upstairs already in his crib. I sat him down and talked to him very nurturing and calmly and asked him to tell me what happened. SS has a habit of making up some stuff sometimes so before I told FH I wanted to make sure that SS was not "exagerrating".

I went thru DOR when my XH and I divorced and we basically came to an agreement outside of the "guidelines" so I know a little but not alot of what they take into consideration. My FH and BM have an agreement that he pays the "babys" health insurance and he also gives her $75.00 a week in child support. He gives her a money order so that he has receipts (good boy). Anyways..she called him last night to tell him that she is going to apply for welfare because she "can't find a job". SHE HASNT EVEN GOTTEN OFF HER COUCH AND LOOKED..but anyways.

My FH always asks me if I want to go with him to drop off "baby". In the beginning he basically begged me to go..hey fine with me-shows me he's not hiding anything..but now that so much has happened with BM,etc. I can't stomach going there anymore.
So FH goes yesterday after picking up SS5 from school to pick up "Baby". Of course SS5 has to go into house (Ms. Piggy always gives him snacks,etc). It's never just a stand at door pickup leave when SS5 is with FH.