Thank goodness I found this page or I'm afraid I'd go insane! This may be more of a ramble than anything but at least it'll help me get it all out. Here goes... This past week, my boyfriend texts me asking what my address is. I tell him and he says omg, BM is looking at a house right by you! Turns out, this house is across the road and 2 houses north of me. My boyfriend doesn't live with me and we purposely have kept where i live from BM due to the fact that when we first started dating, BM parked in the yard of the apartment building my boyfriend and I lived in (he was my neighbor) and sat there until 4am just staring up at our apts and calling nonstop! She's sent me nasty messages on Facebook (until I blocked her) cursed at me, called me some pretty imaginative names, the usual, then demanded to know what we had been doing together. I simply told her that they had both signed the divorce agreement, it's final, and besides all that, her marriage vows were null and void the first time she cheated on him. Not to mention the countless times after that, and that it was none of her concern what we did, that I wasn't going to play these games with her and since she took it upon herself to park in the yard part of my appartment building and stalk my apt until 4 am, any further contact would be considered harassment and the proper action would be taken. She called me an unclassy b$&ch and ranted and raved and tried to say that my bf wasn't all that interested in me when he was in her bed. I just let it go and blocked her because I know how she is and I trust my bf. The only reason he stayed with her the last 2 years of their marriage was because of their daughter. BM was out screwing whoever looked at her twice. She has a BS from her first marriage and she would leave both kids with my bf while she went out. The main guy she cheated with was a married man with kids of his own whom she's been in love with for years. She and her first husband and this guy and his wife used to swing together. That is, until her and the guy began seeing each other behind their SO's backs. So she's not only ruined one marriage with this guy, but 2! Well now she's 15 wks pregnant, has at least 2 possibilities of who the father is, and all she is concerned about is finding a man who will marry her so she isn't alone! This man who she has pined for and ruined 2 marriages for finally left his wife for her but then she decided she didn't want him anymore so all of a sudden she was certain the baby wasn't his, it was this other mans! So the guy went back to his wife. BM recently had an ultrasound done and they are now saying she's further along than they originally predicted so now she really thinks its the married mans baby but she wants it to be the other mans so that's what she's sticking with at the moment. This man has 4 protective orders against him from 4 different women! Got busted for having a meth lab! But oh he's a nice guy. No honey, just because he has his head stuck up your ass doesn't make him a good guy! She constantly tells my bf all of her drama. What gets me most is that she keeps asking him to move back home! He has told her time and again, the only reason he is civil is because of his kid. He is not coming home. So then she talks about having baby daddy du jour move in but says oh I can't though bc of the custody agreement (neither of them can have overnight guests while the daughter is with them) so she says oh I guess we'll just have to elope then. My guess is that she's trying to get a reaction from him. Like she wants him to throw a fit and tell her no. Then she was telling him that her son was crying and saying he didn't have a dad anymore bc his was gone off in the national guard and his step dad left too. He's told that little boy he can come stay with him anytime! I said did it ever occur to BM that if she werent such a whore, her three children might not have three different fathers and she would actually know who the father of the last one was? But no, she never does a thing unless it benefits herself. She told her best friend that the only reason she wouldn't give bf custody was bc she wanted his money! So, you can kinda see why I do not want this woman living across from me! They have joint custody and he even keeps his ex step son once a wk and yet he still pays her CS. Not to mention the days when she wont answer her phone for hours when she knows it's time for her to pick up SD3 or when she has him keep her on her weekend too bc she wants to go partying. Ugh. Bf stays with me on the nights he doesn't have the girl. I can see BM causing big time drama over that. I told bf that if she decides to rent that house, I want her to understand that she better not step one foot onto my property. I don't care if she is on fire and bleeding out of her eyeballs and I'm the only neighbor home! I could definitely see her feeling entitled to come to my home just because bf is there. If she were mature enough to handle it without threatening or name calling then itd be different but she isn't. And it's sad bc we are all adults, they didn't work out but they have a child and for that child's sake we should make an effort to at least be civil. Maybe I'm asking too much of someone such as her.