We have recieved child support one time and my sd14. they took it from her taxes. she actually called us a month before taxes and asked if she could give up all rights so she didn't have to pay child support. She does not see sd14 at all has talked (per judge) to her less than a handful in 11 years. Child support enforcements can NEVER serve her bc she will not open the door. Is there anything we can do?

I am somewhat lucky, I don't have to deal with BM or BM'S family. But the last twoo weeks I have had run ins with them. however they don't know who I am. The first time we were at my mother in laws house sitting in the car. The BM'S Mother pulls up next to us and start yelling at DH saying (imagine in the most hick accent) "Whywon't you let me see my grandaughter you fool." DH "Can you please get off my mothers property?

sd14 in the theraputic home...not much of one. they can't really get a grip on her either. I told DH yesterday I was going to disengage told him what that is going to look like. he said why? I said for one she is not going to work on a relationship with me. she has proven it and by her not doing it and my feeling being so damn sensitive it is making me feel worse. so take me out of the equation maybe if shes not forced to "like" me she will work on a relationship with you. I am going to tell her all of this in family therapy tomorrow.

So I should be thrilled... my sdaughter14 is in a theraputic home...she is finally out of the home and has been since the end of July. She has acted up quite a bit there too. She is supposed to be working on a relationship with me that is what the therapist said to me. she is supposed to talk to me weekley. I say to her do not call on wednesdays i cannot answer it I will be at work. So she picks two days a week that she can call Mondays and Wednesdays. Every Monday she calls her MEME. not me. Im doing my best to have a relationship! I send her a letter once a week.