I am somewhat lucky, I don't have to deal with BM or BM'S family. But the last twoo weeks I have had run ins with them. however they don't know who I am. The first time we were at my mother in laws house sitting in the car. The BM'S Mother pulls up next to us and start yelling at DH saying (imagine in the most hick accent) "Whywon't you let me see my grandaughter you fool." DH "Can you please get off my mothers property? You know why, If your daughter wants to get straight and do what the court has asked then you guys can see her but not untill then" crazy lady says " YOU AINT NOTTIN BUT A CHILD MOLESTER U CRAZY FOOL"....Dh pulls out his phone says" One miniute to get off this property or I call police" she drives away head sticking out the window yelling "child molester. crazy fool. deadbeat dad" okay a little background bm is a low life. drugs... she is supposed to pay child support and we have NEVER seen any...sd is 14. they took money from her taxes once then she has not filed since. Child support office says every time they find her she changes residences. they showed up at school when sd was in third grade BM AND HER MOTHER went to the school and sat all day told her they were going to kill me. get her and her daddy back. which the school got sued because sd is to have no contact per judge. then a year ago they went and call cps and said the my dh had molested sd. so sd had to go through a bunch of test.when they asked sd if she had ever seen a penis she said just my baby brothers becuase he is potty training.

so i work at a hopsital. BM's mother came into the office and she was "ooooohhhh it hurts.... ohhhh Lord Help me....o Jesus...." just to get lab work it took all of me not to say anything....

dh says "Im proud of ya" i said yeah if i let them know who i am then they would start harrasing me at work...