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No child support except once since 2001

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Submitted by jstorie on Thu, 10/09/2014 - 1:16pm

We have recieved child support one time and my sd14. they took it from her taxes. she actually called us a month before taxes and asked if she could give up all rights so she didn't have to pay child support. She does not see sd14 at all has talked (per judge) to her less than a handful in 11 years. Child support enforcements can NEVER serve her bc she will not open the door. Is there anything we can do?

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Submitted by jstorie on Thu, 10/09/2014 - 1:34pm

yes

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Submitted by jstorie on Thu, 10/09/2014 - 1:45pm

my dh says don't worry about it she will never pay. i said thats great a women doesn't have to do anything for her child but I am expected to support the entire family on my sole crappy income including my sd who i run to doctors appt constantly....angry blog sorry.

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Thu, 10/09/2014 - 2:35pm

Class act right there! Kind of like BM1! Hasn't had a job in at least 15 years, has 5 kids, 3 different baby daddies, SD16 has lived with us for 2 years now and guess how much CS BM1 has paid? ZILCH Oh wait! I forgot the one time that DH ran into her and GBM at a gas station and BM1 came over and gave DH $5.00 and said "Here, make sure SD gets this" ...like she was planting a c note or something in his hand. Gee, did you hurt yourself bitch??

Of course part of this mess is DH. He did file for CS about a year ago, but BM1 threw a hissy, MIL called and said she couldn't believe that DH was doing this to BM1, you would have thought that DH dropped an atomic bomb on her the way they were all talking. Basically, DH was too lazy to fill out the papers that the court sent him and he listened to MIL and he withdrew the CS request. Makes my blood boil thinking about it, in the mean time we hear that BM1 is out buying $200.00 in lottery tickets, getting her nails done, hair done, getting free rent, food stamps.. you know the deal....

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Submitted by jstorie on Fri, 10/10/2014 - 8:37am

FRUSTRATING!!! I completley understand. last time she had contact with sd14 she told her she was going to get on disability and your "step-mommy and daddy have to let you see me without paying child support" I told sd14 I am not keeping you away from your mom all i ask is she show the court she wants to see you,as for child support you have a couple more years and you don't qualify for it.

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Submitted by Indigo on Thu, 10/09/2014 - 3:46pm

Angry is fine. Pissed-off that you love and married a man with baggage, is fine. Controlling your life is different. To me it seems as if allowing BM to relinquish rights (and future, non-existant CS) is obvious. Hit the DELETE key. Clean the slate.

Now the entire resentment, anger, "support the entire family on my sole crappy income" thing is something else entirely.