So, apperently my sm tried to call me lastnight. After all the messages back and forth that I thought pretty much cleared up how we felt-we decided to take the kids and my wonderful in-laws out to dinner. How dare I! I missed my sm's call so she left me one last message saying I have made it clear how I feel and once again she is done. She deleted from her face book(which is fine with me). How stupid she is going to feel when she finds out I was not here. She does this shit all of the time and we are all so sick of it. She feels that nobody else is entitled to thier own opinion or thier own life for that fact. She probably actually expected me to sit here at home in misery waiting for her phone call. It's such a joke and I am so sick of hearing "I'm done!" Trust me-over the past 18 years I have heard this over a hundred times. But she seems to forget that I have a life and family of my own and the best bm in the world! I don't care if she wants to be a part of it or not. I am within walking distance of my in-laws who I am very close to and my bm is only a phone call away so my sm's drama really doesn't fit in anywhere. I'm quite fine with that.