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I can't believe the nerve of Ms. Timberlake

HolyShootskey's picture

So she told SO last wk that she didn't want FSS for Xmas. She does work til 3:00 Xmas Eve and has to be in at 7:00 Xmas morning but SO offered to drop FSS by around 5:00 on the eve and she could drop him back on the way to work in the morning. She was not interested.

So the gall of this woman. She texts SO last night and wants to know if she can borrow FSS for an hour tonight bc he and his half bro have been adopted by a youth group for Xmas and they are dropping the gifts by tonight! :jawdrop:

That raggedy ole cuntbag works full time. She has FSS less than half the time. She has his half bro full time but she gets $600 (roughly) a month from SSDI bc half bro's father passed away. She does not qualify as a needy family. What a trash pot.

And let us assume for one moment that her poor money management skills have left her in need this season and unable to buy FSS gifts...SHE COULD HAVE ASKED US! I actually have $100 just sitting here from my future FIL bc he wanted me to put it towards gifts for FSS. I had already spent $150 (which is plenty) so I said we didn't needed it, but I would hold on to it to put towards clothes later down the line. I would have been more than happy to "donate" the gifts I had already to BM's house and use FIL's money to buy new ones for here.

I mean she won't even have the kids for Xmas. FSS is here and half brother is at SO's stepbrother's house! She basically swindled this church out of money! I do social work and part of my job is picking a family to sponsor for the holidays. I see some very sad sad stories and here she is taking gifts that could have and should have gone elsewhere!

My only consilation is that she will be mortified trying to explain to the people where FSS is, since I am sure she told them some sad sack story about being a single mom with no financial support. ARGH!

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GhostWhoCooksDinner's picture

I never understood not wanting your own kids for Christmas. It just doesn't compute in my mind. I used to be so depressed the Christmas days when my BS would be with his dad.

HolyShootskey's picture

Yeah, I mean I am tickled we have him but I can't believe she doesn't at least want him for a few hours to have hot chocolate and watch a Movie or something. She lives a few blocks away!

Aniki-Moderator's picture

Ghost, some people have the kids as a means get income, aka CS. They could care less about them other than the $$ they bring into the mix.

zerostepdrama's picture

THIS is my co worker. And trust me we make a very decent wage.

DH said BM used to do this as well. Join a church to get the benefits and then move on to the next church.

Pathetic and very sad.

HolyShootskey's picture

She doesn't even got to the church. That is the worst part. It is somewhere her ex SIL goes. She definitely does not do church.

Ljcapp1's picture

I did not participate in adopted family stuff this year. This kind of crap is the good reason why. Plus the families we have adopted in teh past ask for Nike Air Jordan shoes or LeBron's. Sorry I can't afford your style...
Your skids will have a X-mas at your house so they won't be getting NOTHING for Pete's sake.

hereiam's picture

Yep, a friend of mine did it one year, and the woman and her son were soooo demanding. No, thanks, that's not what it's about.

SourGrapes's picture

My BM drives a brand new Mercedes, but hasn't paid her rent in 3 months. It's all about appearances.

misSTEP's picture

One year SD got a brand new coat at school because of BM's "poor me" act. She couldn't be bothered to get out of bed to make sure the skids were properly clothed before they went to school on a cold morning (my DH, her BF at the time had to work at 6 a.m.). She was gloating over the fact that SD got a brand new coat for nothing. My DH was FURIOUS.

BM was so "poor" she never worked a FT time for any significant period of time. She was so "poor", she bought a brand new 5 bedroom house for her and the two skids when she decided that the house they lived in wasn't good enough. [She told the skids that the garage was falling over and that it would cost too much to replace it. I did manage to bring up once that the garage is still standing 15 years later...] She was so "poor", she bought a brand new car. Something that I have NEVER done. She was so "poor" that she took the skids out of school for a MONTH LONG vacation down south! I couldn't even tell you the last vacation I took that was more than 200-300 miles away from home. etc etc etc

Must be rough to be so "poor".