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Hogger's picture

I am so upset right now. Just read an email from the BM, full of lies once again. She has bi-polar, panic/anxiety attacks and is afraid to leave her house. All we wanted was for me to be able to take my SS to the dentist as he has a baby tooth that won't come out and is damaging the adult tooth underneath. She refuses to let me help and refuses to take him herself. She lets him sleep in her bed every night so when he does sleep at our house he cries and wants his door open (he's 9). This type of behaviour has been going on for almost 3 years now, she is so bitter and resentful that he finally left her she just can't move on. The worst part is that she uses the SS as a pawn for punishing my bf.

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Pantera's picture

Yikes!!! That is not good. Afraid to leave her house? That is MAJOR anxiety. Is she using medication or is she in therapy? This is definitely not healthy for your SS. She is denying your SS medical attention. What is the custody agreement?

"If I turn into another, Dig me up from under what is covering the better part of me" -Incubus

Pantera's picture

It is what you said, I didn't want to attempt the spelling. That is serious. She is mentally messing that kid up.

"If I turn into another, Dig me up from under what is covering the better part of me" -Incubus

Pantera's picture

Not to mention sleeping with his mother at 9 years old. Mommy issues alert!!!

"If I turn into another, Dig me up from under what is covering the better part of me" -Incubus

CadysMommy313's picture

I'm going through this with SD11's BM. She won't tell us if we can pick SD11 up from school on a different day besides a Friday to get her eye's checked for her new glasses...so she can't get an appointment til April

Hogger's picture

Thanks everyone, I am so glad I found this place! She denies the sleeping thing but SS told us himself that it is happening every night. He is a good kid but is getting really messed up emotionally right now, and there is nothing we can do about it. We called our local Childrens Service and they didn't think it was a problem!!!