SO and I argued last night about BM2 coming to our home/SO going to hers for family therapy, going to look at schools together, pretty much their whole coparenting "plan". BM2 will say one thing to the therapist and call the next day to refuse to do as she said. I don't care about that. I don't think they should even attempt to co parent anymore. It's been a year and nothing has or will change. SO is folowing her lead with parenting SD13 and it's ridiculous. SD13 is treated like a child with a mental disability.

SO and I are currently writing up a custody agreement that he and BM2 may or may not agree on. I know she won't care about the details, just the primary custody and child support. She's probably going to throw a fit over the morality clause, no less than a 3 month relationship for overnight visits. Sorry BM2, the parade of hot dogs and clams will have to stop. (And she wonders why SD13 needs constant attentions and has a crush on everyone she meets.)

Just curious what all was included in your CO or what you wish was included.

First time was a few days ago.

SD13 and SD18 were arguing about chores. I still don't believe an adult should have chores, let alone argue with a child about them.

For the most part I've been disengaged for about 4 months now. Started slowly, not helping with homework, meds, drop offs/pick up, etc. I haven't cooked for, cleaned up after, or really spoken to SD13 in about a month. It seems like she's starting to get it. She's not AS disrespectful as she was months ago and a little better with chores.