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"You're just gonna have to get over it" and "I need to be involved in the big decisions"

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Submitted by Hello Its Sami Jo on Thu, 02/26/2015 - 6:41am

No, SO, I don't have to "get over it".

I made the mistake of skightly engaging SD13 again, didn't mean to, I was just in such a good mood that day. I cut her hair and asked what movie she wanted to rent for the weekend. Doesn't seem too bad, but it is. She thought this meant I would unground her, cook a 5 star meal, baby her and be her at home mommy. I said nothing, and did nothing. Didn't even mention it to SO, just ignored it and went back to my happy place. Out of nowhere SO told me I just need to get over it because she's his daughter and not going anywhere. Umm, ok? I'm the one that pushed him to go for custody, I did the majority of the work for court, and I've been the one parenting these kids. Just because I stopped letting them do whatever whenever and started ignoring the parenting issues I now need to "get over it". Dear SO, get over your disney dad parenting and get your balls back from SD13 and BM2. Facking idiot.

Now enters BM2, SD13 told her about the haircut, said it was done at the salon.."Put SO on NOW! I NEED TO BE INVOLVED IN THE BIG DECISIONS!!! Why would you cut her hair? Blah blah blah." Since when is a haircut a "big decision"? Whatever. BM2 isn't done though...she loves getting attention, doesn't matter where it comes from (SD13 loves it too, big shock)."Oh SO, reading is so important for SD13 blah blah, I'm reading 50 shades of grey Wink blah blah." Of course this isn't flirting, even when they were arguing and she told him he needed laid, winky face. She gets so offended if he accuses her of flirting or asks her to only talk about SD13.

This bitch and her dipshit child. I just don't know anymore.

Of course SD didn't do her homework and/or chores. And SD18 STILL won't go to school, get a job, do chores, etc etc. Then asks if I'll pay her phone. Sure honey, want me to wipe your ass too? I gave this girl money less than a week ago to go out. She wants to spend it on cigarettes. Pay your phone with it. Just because I have a job doesn't mean I'm willing to support a lazy ass adult and 3 other kids.

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Submitted by Hello Its Sami Jo on Thu, 02/26/2015 - 7:07am

We pay SD18 for babysitting, which she hasn't been doing. BM1 shipped her off to us full time once she turned 18 and has only seen her a handful of times.

I actually buzzed it. One of those cuts where half of the head is shaved. She wanted it and it's just hair so who cares. I was tempted to buzz off a little extra every time she moved...could've gotten away with it.

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Submitted by Hello Its Sami Jo on Thu, 02/26/2015 - 7:12am

I know. I usually don't have problems with SD18 so I didn't care about giving her some money for helping.

I disengaged from SD13 months ago, like I said I made a mistake. I was cutting SD18's hair and she asked if I'd do hers. Her dad said it was fine. Then we planned a movie night with the kids. Just stupid to even try. I'm back to ignoring the problems and she's back to sulking around being lazy and entitled.

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Submitted by Hello Its Sami Jo on Thu, 02/26/2015 - 4:03pm

I think I do. The look on SO's face when she called to bitch made the 2 days of hell worth it. I admit, I've done a few dozen things just to piss off BM2 over the last year, and it always feels great.