So last week we had SS 8.5 - He will be with us on Christmas day as well.. "whoopie".

So for the few of you who follow my blog, you would know everything in our house is locked down... everything with food that is...

Thursday night we found SS had found a coke and something else..and he drand/ate this before school... Dad caught him..and Thursday night we had a talk. It was almost pathetic.. DH was crying about how much SS's lying and eating hurt him.. SS was crying.. blah blah.. I acted tender.. but I was a little overwhelmed with the Drama.. to me it's a behaviour disorder..and rightly or wrongly my kid (if it was my kid doing this) would be punished.

Friday I come home from work and ask SS what he's been up to (he had a 1/2 day off of school)... "nothing" was his reply... but low and behold I see that he's eaten his entire advent calendar. So..because of what happened the night before I was calm and we 'talked' (Dad was out) and I said..if there is anything else you've eaten, tell me now...and lets get it over with... and he said there was nothing else.

Saturday he goes to the mall with his Dad and is lying to the store clerks right in front of DH.. stupid unnecessary lies.. which lead me to believe he's going to be a sociopath... Clerk says "What did you ask Santa for Christmas".. SS tells some elaborate story about asking Santa for a BB gun so he can go hunting with his Grandpa as they have this trip planned... DH was astounded.. didn't know just how easily SS lies.. So I'm glad he heard it... he confronted SS later and said "You never asked for a BB gun, and your grandfather doesn't hunt"..to which SS replied "I know"...

Ok...so Monday..yesterday..I go into the freezer... I had some pre-made cookie dough...and they were half eaten with claw marks in the top... never thought to lock the deep freeze too! So now I'm pissed... I say to DH that I'm pissed... and he's like..well we'll have a good Christmas with him and then we'll talk to him about it! How am I supposed to have a good Christmas with this kid..he drives me insane!! He is a Compulsive liar..and a Compulsive Eater..and I get the feeling that all this money we're shelling out to his counsellor is going to amount to nothing because he's probably lying to her also!

Venting..that's all this is... I did hear DH tell his SS that perhaps he wants to live with us full time..and I told DH..that although I support him, before that decision is made..we'll have to talk about what that means...as it's going to strain our marriage...

Ok.. feeling somewhat better.