Like I said I went to stepson's football game this past weekend. I always wondered how my husband and ex are together when they see each other at son's games/practices. After going to his game for the 2nd time in 6 yrs. I realize that husband really hates/can't stand being next to her. He didn't want to sit next to her or even talk to her. When we arrived and we parked next to her car, he didn't even offer to help her carry stuff. He got out of the car, took stepson's bag out of the car and dropped it in her car and started walking to the field.

What is the story w/that??? Anyone been in this situation before? I hate the fact they she talks to the ex. This past weekend, sister in law mentioned that the ex has been very busy w/work....I was planning a bday party for my daughter & stepson and mentioned to my sister in law that I hope that stepson's mother does not change the schedule on us the day of the party. How would she know that ex is very busy w/work unless she talks to her. I just can't stand the fact that inlaws still talk to this monster! What do they feel sorry for her or what?

I spoke to my mother in law today and I had mentioned that I'll be throwing a bday party for my daughter. Her first question was are you combining your stepson's bday too w/hers? I said no, I don't want to have to deal w/his mother about sharing the party together. And plus I don't have enough room to add more guest to the list. I don't know what she is thinking...every year she asks me the same question and every year I tell her no. Am I missing something you guys? I don't think I should be responsible for throwing a party for my stepson...it's not my job to worry about that.

After 6 yrs of putting up w/exwife unfair treatment towards my husband, my husband finally told her at son's soccer game that she needs to coordinate/agree on activities or anything to do w/son for that matter from now on. Ex wife then complained that father does not participate in anything son does, how can he when he gets the schedule the same day or a day before (no time to reschedule his work). Ex wife walked off.