so I had one done recently. i truly believe this psychic, i've seen her before. this was my 2nd time around. she said that bm hates my guts and is very jealous of me. so no sense in trying to be friends with her, no matter what i do it won't matter. this answers my question as to why she is not nice and has a fake act when she sees me. all nice in person but nasty behind my back. it was a relieve to hear that, i knew it all along but just had to hear it from a well trusted source.

I'm just wondering if anyone else is in the same position as me. SS doesn't speak to me when he visits us. He is quite and says nothing to me, not even a hello. He only speaks when I ask him a question. Does this mean something, does BM tell him not to talk to me?

So BM and I finally came to a conclusion that we will start working together on not getting each other upset. I've laid our expectations down and hers too. Now that we both know how each of us feel and know the expectations, can this be good news moving forward? I hope so, we are tired of all the arguments and disagreements, most importantly misunderstanding. I found out that a lot of her perception about us are all false and I was glad to lay it on the table & tell her that its all false and shedded some light for her to understand our feelings and views about things.

A month ago...took SS to his football game, husband could not make it so I took him w/my daughter. After the game I was going to take the kids to lunch when SS invited his mother to join us. She made an excuse that she was going to do laundry and ss said you can do that later and wanted her to come join us. I said that's fine. It was a very weird feeling, this is the 1st time sitting w/this woman. We talked about our upcoming trips and that was it. Of course I had many questions to ask her but could not say them in front of the kids. Saving that for later.