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i find my future teen step daughter annoying

hamteesed's picture

i am not a stepdad yet but me and my girlfriend are to be married next year but i can't stand my girlfriends teen daughter who is 17 she smokes drugs drinks has sex and all though she is an honor student, my girlfriend does not have a problem with this i have two children who both have ADHD yes the are a little well different at times but all in all good kids but her three brats are a different story the oldest which i just mentioned is a spoiled princess can't walk to school witch is 10 minutes away she lives with her dad but always gets her mom my girlfriend to drive her everywhere to work to her friends. she gets away with everything!
and her other two the middle has ADHD as well but when she does not want to do something she does not like she yells screams at her mother and refuses to do it and shes the nicer one lol the youngest is a total brat never listens and also screams stomps and crys when she does not want to do something such as clean her room. i have been out of work for a while so this has but strain on our relationship we just recently broke up and got back together. and her teen daughter has had crushes on some of my girlfriends older male friends and my girlfriend looks at it so innocently she hangs out with us to when we have parties and just tonight we went out and of course princess was with us and i don't think she relized i was in her moms friends car and she was in there too she yelled out bye my name which happens to be the same name as her mothers and she muttered after dickhead and then i think she realized i was there and tried to cover it up by saying she was saying bye to her mom using her moms name i really love my girlfriend but at times i don't know her daughters drive me nuts and my girlfriend complains about my kids which do as they are told are friendly yes a little odd at times and talk alot but they mean well and although my son is ADHD he is extremely smart we have had arguements over our kids but she figures just because her kids get all right grades they can behave like brats....ok thats it for now thanks peeps for letting me vent.

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hamteesed's picture

I don't know i really love my girlfriend i think her daughter is just venting cause she thinks i am a bum cause i have not found a job yet i am trying but i really think my girlfriend is the one we me and her get along for most part its just her kids mostly her 17 year old the other two can be alright at times they even say they love me from time to time

hamteesed's picture

maybe your right naturalmom425 hate is a strong word i don't hate her but i don't exactly like her words and actions sometimes and her other two children are not always driving me crazy and i have a 18 year old son does that hint at my age lol i hope i don't come across as an a** because i am really the nicest guy just this is the first time i have dated someone with children and maybe i was not totally prepared for instant step dad status.