i am not a stepdad yet but me and my girlfriend are to be married next year but i can't stand my girlfriends teen daughter who is 17 she smokes drugs drinks has sex and all though she is an honor student, my girlfriend does not have a problem with this i have two children who both have ADHD yes the are a little well different at times but all in all good kids but her three brats are a different story the oldest which i just mentioned is a spoiled princess can't walk to school witch is 10 minutes away she lives with her dad but always gets her mom my girlfriend to drive her everywhere to wor