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ok...so an update on my..SD and DH
Stil hanging in there.. DH is still going to therapy on his own, we are still going to couples therapy together and overall I would say we are moving in the right direction. DH has had to come to terms with how his actions have now changed a great many things. Examples, most of my memories from vacations past are now tainted. As in...did he really have a good time with us..or was it just because he had time to partake in his side life.
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Last Day of school for SD and shocker..
Beaver was late getting SD to our house for the bus. Anyone shocked...nah...neither are we.
DH took SD to school....only because he wanted McDonalds for Breakfast and NO he waited till after he dropped off SD so she didn't get any either.
The excuse...wait for it...MOM OVER SLEPT..she just couldn't wake up.
Seriously, I think we need a well check for freaking Beaver....I'm guessing now that Beaver doesn't have anything to occupy her time she is hitting the wine bottle(s) HARD.
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Beaver's on a roll ....SD is PISSED
In as the Beaver sleeps....SD has a job at the local food restaurant. They sell baked goods, salads and sandwhiches and it start with P. She works from 5 p.m. till close, since she is still in school. Closing is 9 p.m. but as we all know...you have to clean BEFORE you leave so while closing is 9 p.m. you may not get out till 9:45 or so. Its the nature of any retail position that has closing.
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And to further my hatred of Beaver....she was late this morning
Beaver has to drop off SD at our house to catch the bus. Its not hard..the bus comes the same time every flipping day....and Beaver works a mere 1.5 or 2 miles from our house (meaning she has to come here anyway..it ain't out of the way)....yet Beaver CANNOT make it her in time for SD to get the bus at least once a month.
No message to DH asking if he can take SD to school...or that they are late. Now beaver could just motor on and take SD to schjool..but no since that would make her LATE FOR WORK. It then becomes SD's or DH's problem.
And we have identified that Beaver is half of the problem in my marriage
as in the BITCH NEVER EVER LEAVES MY F*CKING MARRIAGE/LIFE. I hadn't realized just how much I resent having that big fat orange tooth rodent in our lives...but oh boy did this weekend flesh that out.
This is NOT our weekend with SD..I repeat NOT OUR WEEKEND. SD had to work Saturday evening.. Cool..whateves not our problem to get her to work.
Update on me....and my H
So..I figured I owe an update..please no judgment..not everyone will agree with my decision and I know that. However, it is my decision and my life and I have put a lot of thought into this decision.
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Update to Halo's AH imploding our life in 30 seconds or less
Its been a tough week here.
Lots of emotions..
Sadness, anger, relief, dispare, grief....well just about all of them. I will say there is a lot of relief because I have suspected something for a very long time but could never prove it. I feel better there...I wasn't crazy.
I have went through everything that AH had...all accounts, etc
Its been eye opening...at this point trying to decide what the next course of actions are. Stay or go...etc.
Well my time as step mom may be coming to an end - trigger warning
I found out today H because he certainly isn't dear has been having online affairs for the last 5 years. So,yea this has been a fun That Mack truck came out of nowhere and just ran me over.
lots of decisions to think about and to decide. I guess my dog was right and I needed protecting from my not even close to dear h.
I swear neither of DH's kids got any DNA from him...
Neither of them got anything from him......not a thing.
DH is a resonably intelligent man. I've watched him figure out complex computer science hardware/software issues with ease without cracking a sweat. He is funny and can pretty much name any song by just hearing a few lyrics..the man can kill it at name that tune.
His kids...I'm sorry but they are dumber than post, both of them. Its like all of Beaver's stupidity flowed right into the skids and negated anything that they might have gotten from DH.
Did DH just ask me to help in planning Beaver's vacation....
Answer is yes...and he does not appear to appreciate my humor in this one.
On the heels of DH once again not remembering or facting in the fact that I have to be at my desk working by 7 a.m. and he doesn't have to be working 9 a.m. which I got profoundly pissed off about, he send me the following:
Hey Beaver told SD that she needs to schedule vacation and where did she want to go. SD said beach like always and Beaver said to something cheap. So SD has no clue what is cheap to her. Gatlinburg is out. You got any ideas?