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Submitted by GreenTeaTime on Mon, 08/04/2008 - 2:25pm

So we drop ss off after a relatively nice visitation weekend, and he starts up his stuff about not wanting to live with BM, hanging on Dh, and basically throwing a separation anxiety tantrum. BM is just feeling sorry for herself these days since her friend moved out, so all she could do was complain that

confusing rant

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Submitted by GreenTeaTime on Tue, 07/22/2008 - 11:23am

So we finally had ss after 3 weeks, b/c he went on vacation with his BM. it was quite the emotionally draining weekend, and I just wanted to give up a few times. I always tell myself I'm not going to care so much, but I can't stick to that for long.

It's not even the weekend yet

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Submitted by GreenTeaTime on Thu, 06/26/2008 - 9:13am

And I'm getting anxiety just knowing the hours are ticking away until we will go pick up ss. Hopefully it will be a nice uneventful weekend, but that is such a rare thing these days. It seems every weekend that we have him, there is something. It's bad enough that ss is showing strong feelings of entitlement syndrome, and has been switching up the guilt game with Dh lately, witch kills Dh and then I have to spend the next few days after we drop SS off repairing Dh so he doesn't feel like a horrible father.

Child Abuse?

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Submitted by GreenTeaTime on Mon, 06/16/2008 - 1:47pm

Father's day was good, and of course My Dh had SS this weekend. All except for the whinning as usual, when he doesnt get his way, and the mouthing of anytime you ask ss to do anything. Well, we are int he middle of having a good time sunday afternoon, when ss starts his where are we going after this routine. He always starts in with the whining on sundays befor we take him home. sometimes it starts as soon as he gets up in the morning, or sometimes its after lunch, but you can count on it,thats for sure.