My first entry...but probably not my last one...

Just spent the last two weeks getting ready for my Ss, dil, and 3 kids to visit my husband and me for Christmas. Shopped and wrapped gifts for the kids. Gave S&S and dil cash gifts. They stayed all night at our home for three nights. When opening their gifts, the 11 year old boy claimed that his sisters gifts cost more! (I spent the same on each child.). I have never relieved a card, letter or gift from them. When saying goodbyes tonight, I hugged Ss and said, "I hope you have a Merry Christmas." He looked away from me and did a half turn.. He also calls me the "other woman". I met their father AFTER his wife left HIM. And have the dated emails to prove it!!!! SS and family have gone now and I told hubby I was tired of their behavior. Hubby said to not yell at him--what can hubby do?!?!?!?! I said you can tell them not to treat me that way! I am not talking to hubby now. We never fight about anything, but I am soooooo over this ss's attitude. Thank you in advance for any suggestions. I'm glad I found this site....

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Your DH cannot make them

Your DH cannot make them treat you right. Yes he should defend your honor - but it sounds like he has no gonads to even try to correct the son's assumptions.

So your DH is going to do nothing. But you would be a stupid fool to continue to allow them to walk all over you and use you.

What YOU do is write the ahole son and his family out of your life 100%. They are now officially DEAD to you. They are never to so much as set foot on your home again. They can stay in a hotel and your DH can see them elsewhere.

Done.

I your DH truly believes that you should continue to be grovel and plead with SS and his family while they treat you like s&^& - then you have a husband problem bigger than your SS problem.