I hate having my SDs over now. We just moved to our new home in october. I've waited ten years to have my own home and I just want peace and quiet. Now YSD is coming tomorrow for at least a week and I'm dreading it. I hate having her around because I feel like I'm invisible and don't exist. She always says things to my husband behind my back when I'm not in the room and she knows how she treats me but my husband doesn't give a crap about it and doesn't do anything about it. I am nice to her and behave myself but I just want to tell her to get the heck out and show respect to me and quit acting like I don't exist. Would that be so bad to say? We tolerate each other, let's put it that way. So, I always feel yucky and get anxiety when she comes around. What do you guys do when your SKids come and what helps you calm down and deal with them? Advice please.