I will hold my tongue...Even if it hurts..

MIL only gets to see SD9 once or twice a year if that. So I guess there's no harm in MIL spoiling SD9 for a week or two. I will just have to remind SD9 of her manners even if its in front of MIL and if SD9 starts acting up I will simply tell MIL to not get anything for SD9 since she obviously doesn't deserve it at the moment, worst case scenario once MIL leaves I can put away,take away,hide half the shit she bought SD9 if she starts being a little turd, which is very often.

FYI: It will be hard to deal but I will try to do my best. MIL enjoys buying SD9 shit a 30 year old person would know how to use and enjoy. Freaking Girl, remind you she is only 9 years old has...are you ready?!.... A flat screen TV on her bedroom along with a blue-ray player, She has a small laptop MIL got her on her last Birthday that she NEVER uses. She got a "just because" MP3 player that she lost! and for last years Christmas a Freaking IPOD 8G!!! Like WTF!! What 9 year old needs all this shit!!?? Whats next an IPhone and a brand new fucking BMW???

These are the things that get me upset. Not the fact that MIL spoils her its how she does it! Thanks to BD and MIL, SD9 will grow up to be a selfish, spoiled brat because daddy and Grammy will get her everything. It will be a miracle if that girl ever gets a job or worse moves out of our home!!!

The worse part of all is that I myself cannot afford these things and even if I did I sure as hell will not buy them for a 9 year old!. The point is, how am I suppose to compete with that?! This is what I go through... SD9 speaking: "Ms foxymama87 took me to the mall and got me a build-a-bear, I love it".....a day later..."ooo! Grammy Sent me an XBOX360 (pushes bear aside like its a piece of shit and forgets all the time we spent together making it and picking out its clothes...)

How well SD9 enjoy the simple things in life when she has MIL giving her all these flashy things? How is she going to learn to appreciate what she has and how fortunate she is when she has MIL spoiling her with shit she doesn't really NEED but WANT?

Yes this is why I dread when MIL is around and she doesn't have to be around to spoil SD9 thanks to UPS and FED-EX!!!....grr...deep breaths.....

I WANT a MILLION dollars Maybe if I pout and bat my pretty brown eyes MIL will give it to me...Because life is that easy....and we all can get what we Want!.....