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Submitted by evilstepmotherJ on Sat, 09/14/2013 - 6:35pm

I need to blog this so I never forget; if i ever get weak and feel bad for you or want to help you again or feel like disengaging from you is a bad idea, I need to remember today and remember what you wrote on your FB page about your dad, on his birthday.

"I wanna wish my dad a happy birthday, I know you never wanna see your little girl grow up, I know you want me to make all the right choices, I know you want me to do what makes me happy, I know you want everything for me. We don't see eye to eye on much of anything anymore and we have grown apart and sometimes, that has to happen to bring us back together. I want you to know, no matter how little we talk or see each other you are always in my heart and I will always love you, no matter what. Have a happy birthday and I love you"

I must never forget what a coward you are and how you can't say a word to his face even though you live in the same house (rent free I might add) but you can post this for over 800 of your "closest friends", how you couldn't even say happy birthday to his face but you want all your friends to hear about it. Nice, real nice. Just keep showing him how little you think of him...........you just keep breaking his heart. It's easy to turn away from him now that you have a BF but honey, that BF won't be around forever and when he's gone I hope you get to feel the pain of what you did to your dad. Someday when your dad isn't around, i hope you remember this day and how you could have been with him but chose to stay away. I hope this day haunts you.

On and PS......if you really want to "grown apart", get your shit and get the hell out of my house now because I'm pretty sure I'm not going to be able to keep my mouth shut for too much longer and I really don't think you want to hear what I have to say

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Sat, 09/14/2013 - 8:41pm

Don't look at her facebook page/social media anymore. Block and unfriend her. Unless you all get along fabulously it is almost never wise for stepfamily members to look at each others' pages. It won't cure her behavior or issues but at least you won't have to see her posts.

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Submitted by Bojangles on Sun, 09/15/2013 - 2:19am

I totally understand your anger and frustration. The posturing emotional maturity in front of an audience of strangers is like nails on a blackboard. As anon2009 says the only answer to that kind of vapid insincere Facebook nonsense is to not look at it. I know that can be hard when part of you wants to know what she's saying and doing, but it really is better not to know. And you are remaining engaged on some level when you read that stuff and it gets to you. Ignore her post and do something nice with DH.

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Submitted by evilstepmotherJ on Sun, 09/15/2013 - 7:16am

Thanks and i agree, it is to the point where I need to delete and block her and tell family members NOT to tell me what they see. It is hard because I want to know what is going on yet I don't. This morning she left a hand written note for DH and I must say it was the strangest note I have ever read. It was filled with excuses as to why she's too busy for her Dad and it's all I can do not to say to her "hey you don't need to make up excuses, we are onboard with why you don't want to spend time with us". I just read it, while hubby watched and shook my head. Not much to say that he doesn't already know.