My husband called BM yesterday and confronted her on her trying to screw us over. He also told her that he was taking her for custady of my two SD's. She just laughed and told him that for the past five years that's what she wanted to do and he wouldn't be able to see his girls again.

He told the BM that not everyone was a sorry SOB and he would let her have visitation unlike she wanted him to have. He also told her that his oldest daughter didn't ever want to move back in with BM. He also told BM if she tried to make it hard on the oldest because of this desission that he would sue for complete custady. I'm not quite sure the youngest wants to go back or not.

In North Carolina the oldest is old enough to deside by herself where she wants to live but the youngest isn't. Oh and get this the BM told my husband that they girls could come back to live with her "IF" they would mind her and do everything she told them. Their kids! and she putting stipulations on their living with her? It's her fault they are out of control already!

As long as she got her child support she didn't give a d*mn about them. Their possition in her house was housecleaner, and other than that she didn't want them around. Every weekend she sent them to their grandparents because it was "her" day off. And one weekend out of EVERY month her and her new husband went on a mini vacation either to the beach or the casino. And when she knew she went to far with the girls she tried to buy their love (this is what both girls say)

Heck this woman has been in anger managment classes twice and parenting class once by order of DFCS. And we (my DH and I) are just finding this out!! DFCS never once notified my husband of this, not once!