My cousin is a father figure to a 15 yr old girl (i'll call her Zoe) and recently her mother moved out of state. Zoe decided to stay and live with him. She was 6 when my cousin came in Zoe's life so basically thats her "dad" to her. Well my cousin is now dating a wonderful gal and she moved in recently. It makes me sick to see the Zoe's behavior. She pets my cousin (touches arm and thighs), kisses him on the lips (just a peck, nothing more), sits on his lap... basically mini spouse syndrome. He wont see it, even after a counselor and his mother told him about how inappropiate it is. Even after Zoe was told she could put my cousin in jail or even prison, make him register as a sex offender, and make him lose his career bc of her behavior she wont stop. Ofcourse the girlfriend is sick of it and I can understand. She wonders if he just wanted her to move in so it wouldnt look so hinky with the girl living there. I've told her advice i've read on here and with the way it has been getting her only options are to disengage or leave. I feel bad telling her there is no options, but she can only control her reactions and her behavior. I worry my cousin will end up badly, but there is nothing i can do for him either.