I got home last night to a sink full of dishes. DH was in the kitchen talking to me as I fed and watered my dog - (my child i love!!) I pointed to the sink and said i'm not cleaning those dishes and I don't understand what's so hard about washing the leftover food off the plates. DH went and called ss17 into the room and said learn to wash off your plates. I asked DH if he and his boys would be doing anything helpful around the house this week. DH took the week off and his kids are there. DH said that he would rather throw dishes away and buy new instead of washing dishes.

I had a conversation with DH last night before going out to eat with the skids. SS15 has been at our house since Thursday along with 2217 but he went home on Saturday to go to work. I knew ss15 would stay which irritated me. SS17 came back last night for the family meal that we had planned and he will be going home again this morning. ss15 is going back to BM's with him. I brought up to DH in our room before leaving that I would appreciate it if he told ss15 that it would be best if he waited to return on Sunday since he was planning on spending the remainder of the week with us.

How is it ss15 goes though 5 phone chargers in a 6 month period but everyone else has managed to only use 1 and I ask DH this and that maybe his son should buy his own chargers because obviously he's being too hard on it. Everyone else manages to only use 1. I get yelled at for being so perfect that nothing has ever broken on me before. I brought up the point that it's not the first time that something has broken on him and that ss17 has had no problems with his charger.

ss15 didnt' go home until Monday night when we took him home from his Friday visit. now he's back again. seriously - he just left Monday - we just saw him when we took him and ss17 out for supper last night - I got out of having to bring him home but here he is again. NOT looking forward to going home tonight. why does he have to be there EVERY weekend. How do I politely bring up to DH that I would like time other than during week (starting to invade that now too) without ss15 being there.