BM is getting married!
Okay so my DH spoke to crazy BM yesterday and here is the lowdown. So she has a new bf that she moved in to her parents house 2 weeks ago. We found out about said bf a month ago through the kids. She was in Rehab as of the beginning of June. She got out in August. Had the skids sleep over with the BF at her parents house. Did not inform my DH. So now she says that she is getting married. And that she has known this guy for 4 months. There are getting a 3 bedroom apartment and that she is taking my husband back to court to get custody of the kids. Okay so 4 months ago she was using something, something really hard because she was high as a kite at SS14 school awards assembly. Talking to herself, under her breath, and using the phone really loud while the assembly was going on. The lady sitting next to me was looking at her wondering what was wrong with her. I was super embarrassed. She repeatedly was asking us for money for "gas". My husband and I both told her sorry but we have no cash on hand. Um hello you dont pay CS and you are asking us for money. Do we look like an ATM? Anywho. Oh and she can no longer go to the job that she got in August because she has a cyst and has to be on bed rest? Me, I think she is pregnant again. Mind you she has a 2 year old who she has custody of whose pregnancy she spent in rehab with the little girls dad. He is also an addict like her. So I am wondering why the hurry? What do you guys think? Would a judge give her the time of day? Did I mention she hasnt given us a penny since Dh got custody in May of 2005?
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I'm far from a legal expert,
I'm far from a legal expert, but I'm guessing she doesn't have a leg to stand on (that's assuming she actually follows through with any of this in the first place).
Yup I said as much to my
Yup I said as much to my husband. Last month she was going to be a paramedic, two weeks ago a yoga instructor and the list and relationships goes on and on. He is worried because he did not get a good vibe from the guy when he met him two weeks ago when she dropped the kids off. But they are not going there this weekend. I am kinda disappointed cause I don't get a break but at least I know the kids are going to be okay here and will not be dragging mama drama home.
Uh huh. The new "fiance" will
Uh huh. The new "fiance" will likely go the way of the paramedic and yoga plans.
Maybe you can find some time to yourself this weekend somewhow...evern if it's reading or watching a chick flick alone in your room, going for a walk, something...good luck!
Was she not ordered to pay
Was she not ordered to pay child support? About your question tho unless she has done a complete turn around from how she was when she lost the children I highly doubt a judge taking custody from you. If sh has changed and she doesn have much visitation then the judge may grant her more visits than what she now. Of course she just got out rehab not too long ago so who knows. Another thing is judges dont usually take a child out of a home when the child is doing well. If since the child has been living with you has gotten and kept good grades in school, has not had any problems, your husbnad has not been in any trouble for any major things it will be very unlikely that the judge will take cutody away from your husband. Now in order to modify a current court order with changing custody from your husband to her the judge LEGALLY has to follow steps. He cannot legally change custody from your husband to her UNLESS there has been a SUBSTANTIAL CHANGE IN CIRCUMSTANCES. For example your husband has been in jail over and over for major things, the child has been doing very poorly in school, the child has been neglected. Pretty much if your husband starts to be an EXTREMELY unfit parent and BM can prove it then she may have a chance. BUT she has to PROVE it or there has to be PROOF that your husband is not doing his job as a parent. The judge cannot just say well the mother isnt in rehab anymore so she should get custody. It doesnt work like that.
Odds are SLIM TO NONE...oops!
Odds are SLIM TO NONE...oops! sorry, she's a woman...maybe a little chance...but I doubt it.