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Not my kid not my problem Yeah right

clueless2stepparent's picture

I use to tell myself all his problems 10ss are not my concern. I didn't damage him I don't need to burdenyself with fixing him. But that's not true its all my problem. Cps is dumb they took him n gave him to us 8 months ago now mom gets to Pick her schedule. We went from her having him Friday Saturday n come home Sunday to now Every Pther weekend. n She told cps she wanted more time with him Lies. she's a liar. She wanted to Reduce her time so she can party one weekend n have her kids one weekend n look like she cares. I have him all week tend to all his needs n she does Nothing. it's awful now im a weekends baby sitter to great husband promises to take him fishing Sundays so I have me time but still my Friday n Saturday every other weekend are gone I hate her. 

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clueless2stepparent's picture

hubby does his best he works 9 to 9 5 days n spends the other 2 with SS n after work he plays with him they always eat dinner n breakfast 2gether he takes him to school 2 out the 4 times befor he goes to work. It just really feels like it's still to much for me I  am not use to having a 10 year old boy and one that is Nothing like what I'd want mykid to be like at that makes it hard to be his go to care provider I do my best to not let him know I hate it such so he doesn't feel like a burden im sure he feels a whole lot of emotions that are hard to deal with because of all the abuse n neglect he's experienced already but I love my husband n im proud of him today he actually told me he asks to much of me its alot with 3 kids n he sees his son is "Special " n a handful they recently picked up a sport so I get Sundays now to myself thabk the heavens

SeeYouNever's picture

I'd we had the majority custody think I would lose my mind too. What us with men acting like since you are a woman you have to do all the mothering? He is the one that picked a loser to procreate with, he needs to face the consequences of that bad decision not put it all on you.

tog redux's picture

Right - and then the women accept that and take on all the mothering.  I don't get that, either.

Winterglow's picture

From your previous posts, you work from home, your partner is incapable of understanding that working from home is WORK, and you're expected to take care of everything to do with a child who is not yours. 

Walk away...