I keep wondering is there any pluses.  Last night was a huge fight . BM was an hour late dropping off SS10 after her 1 Day with him. I had a meeting so naturally I waited untill I couldn't wait then I left hubby texts me ss will be home in 1 hr well I'm not so tell BM to bring him latter like 9pm when I'll be home. Hubby seems to be very beta male with BM im over it. He starts texting me how could I not be there for his son. Well maybe I have a life n u and ur BM need to stick to a schedule for the benefit of all of us. She manipulates him so bad.

SS10 can go to moms for 4 while days every 2 weeks now. I'm thrilled n mad at the same time. Court is next week mom is probably gonna get 1 week 1 week I was hoping for three days for mom 4 for dad so ss can be with mom everyweekwnd while dad works n be with dad on his days off. But hey im step mom I have no say in the court. I'm just babysitters,  primary care provider,  financial supporter and maid chef teacher and entertainor and transportation.

I use to tell myself all his problems 10ss are not my concern. I didn't damage him I don't need to burdenyself with fixing him. But that's not true its all my problem. Cps is dumb they took him n gave him to us 8 months ago now mom gets to Pick her schedule. We went from her having him Friday Saturday n come home Sunday to now Every Pther weekend. n She told cps she wanted more time with him Lies. she's a liar. She wanted to Reduce her time so she can party one weekend n have her kids one weekend n look like she cares. I have him all week tend to all his needs n she does Nothing.