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Toxic Troll just CANNOT lay off and crawl under her rock!

CLove's picture

Submitted by CLove on Tue, 01/21/2020 - 1:35pm

Im getting pretty upset as I emotionally prepare for todays celebration of life for my MIL.

MIL passed away Friday night after our Vigil and we had already gone home and were in bed when the call came.

Its been non-stop family gatherings and today is another one for the celebration of life and viewing.

So - I saw that Toxic Trol had posteda  lovely photo (that she stole from a FB family member) and included the following text:

"My beautiful mom in law went to Heaven. I regret not spending more time with her. She would call me to come for Christmas and other parties after I divorced her son, but I didnt go bc I didnt want to cause trouble with my exes wife...

I love you Mom and I know you are watching over...

Im happy you are with the love of your life....

Thank you for being such a great Mom to me and a wonderful Lola to my children"

Yeah, the woman who cheated on her son, who abused her son, and who abused her chidlren as well as myself.

After she showed up a couple of evenings, SIL FINALLY said something to Feral Forger, and she didnt show for the final evening. She was invited ONCE by my MIL who has dementia. Once 2 years ago. I hate that she can act like shes such a loving sweet person, that I am this horrible person who prevented her deepening her relationship with her EXES FAMILY, FFS.

And this is after Munchkin insisted that "my moms good with you, shes really happy for you and dad and shes happy with everything!"

What a fecking b!tch.

I thought I ran out of "last straws". Nope. Thats it. No more nice.

 

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advice.only2's picture

Submitted by advice.only2 on Tue, 01/21/2020 - 1:43pm

So very sorry for you and your DH's loss. This is where you just have to block the wh@re on social media, the less you know the better. Being oblivious is a blessing.

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Submitted by bananaseedo on Tue, 01/21/2020 - 3:21pm

That seems like a lot to me too. Some people are ok with that, others are not.  Because my FIL had a LOT of students here he taught and family out of town, it became a little much but not over the top. He had a very sudden death.  We had viewing then a celebration of life service here, then his family drove w/his ashes to his home state to have him join his parents burial plot there, so another small funeral service (I wasn't at that one).

For my father, we decided against a viewing (I honestly just cannot wrap my head around it and find it VERY emotionally heavy).  He passed from cancer, so our family had also been spending night after night helping him transition to the other side you could say...and THAT was the hardest thing in our entire lives to be honest-we were exhausted by then.  We cremated him (his wishes also) and did a celebration of life and the burial of ashes at the veterans cemetery-with a short funeral procession before it. 

Yeah, she sounds like our bm- she even posted on FB about his death before we had a chance to tell anyone in person...and made it ALL about her-showed up to the viewing ALL day/evening...blah blah- loved him so much- just BS lies.  They are disgusting trolls hon....horrible!

 

CLove's picture

Submitted by CLove on Wed, 01/22/2020 - 11:15am

She was there a long time ago - so I guess she figures she has her "rights".

Well, rights are now terminated, with MIL's passing.

I dont give an eff about her "Dna hooks", not anymore.

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Submitted by Crspyew on Tue, 01/21/2020 - 5:58pm

Your FB account in heaven?  I cannot understand people posting messages to the departed. Do u need a ouji board to see if they "like" the post?

i loathe social media for behaviors like this.

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Tue, 01/21/2020 - 8:01pm

I'm sorry, sweetie 

Who has access to MIL to delete TT's and FF's contact info? 

CLove's picture

Submitted by CLove on Wed, 01/22/2020 - 11:10am

Some of the family are FB friends with Toxic Troll still, after all the drama and abuse.

In fact Munchkin alerted me that a WIFE had given my SIL Toxic Trolls new phone number. To keep in tuoch? To invite her to gatherings? IDK. I figure its just in case anything happens to DH, they want a connection for kids sake.

I hate that. The "DNA hooks".

 

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Submitted by ctnmom on Wed, 01/22/2020 - 9:58am

TT is such a jerk. I find any drama around funerals/death to be cheap and trashy. Just support your DH through this, and as others have said, block her. She deserves none of your headspace.