I have been married for almost a yr and have been with my husband for 3yrs he has 2 sons 8 and 15 the 15 yr old Is his x wifes from a previous marriage he got with her when he was 4 and the real dad has never be in his life so my husband has raised him thier mother is a piece of work she uses everyone and still has complete control over My husband she gets the boys one day a wk and each wk Its a diff rent day my husband still pays her child support and we have them i have 2 kids from my previous marriage 13,son 3yr daughter my custody is joint so thier with thie d ad one wk me the next.. i find myself wishing id never got into this even tho my x cheated on me t his has been so hard we compare our kids constantly my oldest stepson plays us against eachother lies cheats and steals and my husband hides and denys it im at my wits end here